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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We have a baby and he's in no rush to marry! How long should I wait for him to commit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. We have a 3 month old baby and we are very happy. My problem is that I want to get married sometime soon and he acts like he is in no hurry. He talks about a second child together, but shows no sign to marry me first, ... (158 words)

When I talk to a boy all they talk about is how hot my friends are. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i do?i have 2 freinds that are really hot and all the guys like them.and i am ugly and fat.so all the attention goes to my friends.the sad thing is that one is really mean and the other one is a snob.what should i do if i have hot friends and am ugly and fat.when i ... (77 words)

He disrespects me in public in front of his family and friends and is very jealous! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband for 4 months now and it feels like I am in hell. I have just been hospitalized due to the stress he and my family is causing me. He disrespects me in public in front of his family and friends, he is jealous beyond belief, I feel like I cant ... (114 words)

My ex gf is still very rude to me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6463 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! This kind of continues from (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-one-my-buddies-like-my-ex-gf.html). Tommorow is the last time I shall see her until after the easter period and it's her birthday on Sunday and I haven't got her anything to give her tommorow, I... (248 words)

His ex gf will be at a friends wedding and I don't want us to go! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's friend is getting married. They live in his home state which we do not live in. They called to let him know when it is. We are in the military and it's hard to find time for leave to do stuff like that. He acknowledged this to them over the phone, saying that we ... (459 words)

Very uncomfortable with this female friend of his--she still sends him sexy pics! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got married to a man I love very much. Our relationship is good and he makes me feel better about myself than any other man has. We've been together a year. He has a female friend that he talks to and texts on his phone though that he talked to before we got ... (562 words)

His ex gf and her new guy have threatened to beat us up! I am scared..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i will soon be getting back with my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend has text him telling him that she has chucked his stuff out and she text back and called her a slag now her new boyfriend is going to batter him. i am scared that i am going to get batterd for getting back with ... (83 words)

My ex said he still likes me but tonight I saw him kissing someone else!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice and asap! normally I'm good at giving out advice but this time I'm stuck. My ex contacted me and said he still likes me but he had a girlfriend at the time, now they have broken up but i keep seeing them together and tonight I saw them kissing. He has really hurt ... (104 words)

We've met up again after 10 years but I really don't know if he feels something for me or is just going with the flow...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's my story...I met this guy 10 years ago and had this childish crush on him which he wasnt even aware of...we lost touch and ten years later our paths cross again but this time he has a girlfriend so clearly there's nuthin there, so we become friends. Only probem is that ... (249 words)

She flirts with everyone and shes married, Im annoyed as shes sleeping with a guy at work and it could have been me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, there is a girl in my office, she started flirting with me some time back but as she was married i did not respond,flirted with her sometimes but never slept with her (though i wanted too). whenever i would give her signals she sould ignore them, but when she gave sig... (252 words)

I think I'm falling in love with him, but he loves my best friend and think shes falling for him! What do I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well... I think I'm falling in love with this guy that I know, his so nice and sometimes sweet. His not perfect, but his in love with one of my best friends, and i think she's starting to fall for him as well. I dont know what to do. what do i do?... (53 words)

How can I trust that he won't "hook up" with someone behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age - A couple of weeks ago, while having sex with my partner/fiance ("fiance" concept is presently up in the air), I talked about having a threesome to excite him. HE went on-line almost immediately looking for that 3rd person. Hesitant to destroy the fantasy, I was noncommital ... (430 words)

When it comes to relationships, why am I so emotional?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - When it comes to my relationship, I am too emotional. I have a tempter, I cry...when we fight, it affects my entire life. I can't work and can't eat. I never use to be like this up until the past year or so. how did this happen...how can I change this about myself?... (55 words)

We used to be such good friends but I think she's fallen for another guy and I don't know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - me and this girl met last summer we really started to like each other and we met a few times after and we talk every night on the phone, im not quite sure what we are and now she has started to fall for another guy and i dont know what to do... (53 words)

My boyfriend seems to be getting lazier and I just feel used by him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i am having a huge problem and i really need some advice on. I have been dating this guy for a little over a year, but in the past few months he has got lazy. When he is at my house or when im at his, he always says " hey babe, can you go get me blah blah". I feel like im ... (163 words)

Although I really do appereciate that he is being himself with me, I'm not sure I want this kind of relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - GUY TROUBLE!!!!!!!! ok so there is this guy i kinda have a little crush on, a lot of people have told me he is in love with me but i try not to follow gossips. So the problem is that the more i talk to him and the more i get to know him i realise that we dont have much in commo... (183 words)

My partner and I are planning a backyard "commitment" ceremony.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay me and my partner are planning a backyard commitment ceremony. I just don't know where to start with it. who should be the speaker? what should we wear? How to invite people? how long does it take to plan these things? my head is spinning. i don't know where to start and ... (67 words)

he has made comments that women have too much power, women are inferior, women can't get anything done without emotion

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for about a year and a half. He seems to have two very distinct sides to him. When things are going well and he is happy, he is smart, sensitive, protective, re-assuring, complimentary, loving, calm, fun and funny to be around. When we are happy, I ... (1304 words)

I keep finding girls things in his apartment, am I over analysing here or is he cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope I'm not being incredibly naive about this but could this all just be a bunch of coincidences? My b/f just moved into his own apartment (Feb '07) and the people who lived there previously left some stuff there. He has friends over a lot and sometimes their girlfriends ... (253 words)

I've been with my boyfriend a little over a year but it's not the same any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. Things haven't been too great for us over the past three months. He told me three months ago that while we were dating early on he kissed another girl a couple of times and considered dating another girl who really ... (302 words)

I can't stop thinking about this guy, trouble is I've been married for 2 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 24 and I ve been married for 2 years. I met this guy and ever since I just cant stop thinking about him no matter how much I try. I made the mistake for calling him and we talked, we call each other and send each other messages, only met him once which was the first ... (117 words)

I knew he had a gf, we had sex, shes gone to America for 2 weeks I'm in love with him!! What do I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - We had sex even though he had a girlfriend. He told me they were on a break and he told her about me. Now shes gone to america for 2 weeks hes still sleeping with me and ive fallen in love! What do i do!... (50 words)

Did she phone me expecting me to phone her back and start up something again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Ex girlfriend phones me up, talks for a few minutes. Not heard again from her in 4 weeks, people say she is waiting for me to phone her. What do you think? Did she phone me expecting me to phone her back and start up something again? Not heard from her for 6 Months since i t... (71 words)

We broke up as it was hard being long distance etc, Im hurt that she already had sex with someone and whilst not my business I am worried about her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We broke up because of logistical reasons. The distance that kept us apart, difficult legal issues concerning immigration should we want to move to be together and general conflicting life paths. She still claimed sh... (803 words)

How do you give a good blowjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you give a good blow job?... (8 words)

I thought he was straight then we slept together! not sure whats going on now, What do you guys make of it ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Help!! firstly I feel like a total basket case for writing this but I am really wanting to get over this situation I find myself in. Okay I recently had a big sole searching holiday on my own in Thailand where I done nothing apart from detox and recharge my batteries. It had b... (786 words)

Im considering becoming a prostitute as I fear its the only way out of my debt!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

- I'm so desperate for money right now, I owe so much out, I've been having thoughts that my only way out is prostitution. I really don't want to do this, is there any way round this? I need money asap and really have no other choice. Is it dangerous to go to a brothel and do it, ... (63 words)

My Bf doesnt always cum when we have sex, I take this personally and that I'm not as good as other women!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

- Sometimes, my boyfriend doesn't come when we have sex and I take this really personally. I think he doesn't enjoy it as much with me as with other women. He says I'm being crazy but I feel bad about it. How can we sort this? ps we have to use condoms as he has an STD and h... (67 words)

My husband of 10 yrs gets drunk and smokes pot everyday, I want to leave, but I'm worried for my childrens safety!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6439 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 38 years old, I have 5 children and I am contemplating divorse for the 2nd time. My Husband and I have been together 10 years. He gets drunk everyday and is a pot smoker. He blacks out and doesn't remember picking fights with me (or so he says)and then acts like everyt... (393 words)

Just found out that he's been with a man! Putting up with his flirting with women is one thing, but men aswell!!! please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for 3yrs with a breif break over xmas 2005. i knew he was seeing another girl and i was seeing another guy. we soon got back togther and its been going great since then. ive now just found out that he has also slept with a bloke. i knew he had ... (171 words)

We are looking to get back together, I've sorted my issues, but shes heistant as her family feel it would be a mistake, any advice on gaining her trust again!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i of 9 years recently split up about 6 months ago. our reason for splitting was my fault as i disrespected her family, some of my actions looked as though i was unfaithful, and drank way to much.. these were repeated actions over the 9yrs. Since we have split, ... (255 words)

My ex wont leave me alone, I do still have feelings for him, but I know I dont want to go back! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend won't leave me alone- and i know theres a part of me that doesn't want him to. He was my first proper boyfriend- i lost my virginity to him but we broke up, because he deals drugs and is always getting into trouble. The thing that made me realise i should leave ... (292 words)

I'm bisexual, but should I wait until I've been with another girl before Im really open about it ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need help. For the past 3 years or so, I've known I was bisexual. About a month ago I came out to my friends. At first they were a bit suprised but accepted me for it and they sort of joke about it but they mean well. But the problem is that I'm wondering if I ... (114 words)

We had a row, I lashed out and slapped him! I'm truly sorry, but how can I get him to believe me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - we had a fight and i slapped my bf. i dont really mean it,it just happens bcoz i was in so much rage,i told him im sorry but he won't listen.what will i do to make him believe tat i'am really sorry for what i did? please help.i'm desperate..... (49 words)

How can I get him out of my head as a potential lover, to back to just being a friend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have beeen very good friends with a guy for 3 years, we love spending time together and we can talk for hours about anything. For the first 2 years I had a boyfriend but unfortunately we split up a year ago. It took me about 7 months to get over the break up and in the last 5 ... (315 words)

His mother is jealous of our relationship! How can we get round it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Boyfriends over controled mother. me(20) and my boyfriend(22) are in a bad situation or may i say i am. my boyfriends mother doesnt like me at all and i dont no why she is like this to me. I was still a virgin when we met and she told him just the other night that i only use ... (117 words)

Im due to get married but cant get the other guy out of my head despite him being distant! What should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - About 5 years ago I had a relationship with the most fantastic guy I have ever known. After a while he had to move away with his job, I had commitments and couldnt go with him. We carried on seeing each other for a while but eventually decided it was to far. We have always ... (139 words)

How can I cool my head and get to better talking terms with my partner for both our sakes ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been told that the regular swearing, sarcasm ect, even if I have made a mistake or upset my partner is abuse and not normal. It has allways upsett me and now Im looking to improve our relationship and us both as individuals. Im attending councelling and on meds, for ... (137 words)

We have been dating for 2 yrs things in the main are good, but then he makes me feel second best! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have a huge problem i need advice please. i've been dating this 43 yr olf guy 4 2yrs now we have loads in common and get on really well but lately he has gone very laidback he puts everything b4 me and it hurts me very much . it was my birthday yesterday i was kinda hoping ... (342 words)

I've just discovered hes been looking at incest porn on the pc, I only gave birth 4 months ago, is this my fault!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ive recently had a baby (4 months ago to be exact) after she was born, my partner kept saying to me he needed space, so i kept taking her on walks, when i would get home the blinds would be shut(which confused me as it was the middle of the day) one day he did this, i checked ... (189 words)

Ive started to go very dry down there and its ruining my sex life! What can I do ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Does any one know what causes you to dry up during intercourse?? i used to have such a high sex drive when about 4 years ago but all of a sudden i started to go dry, and i mean dry as a towel,and no matter how i try icant enoy sex anymore. I dont get in the moods easily, at ... (103 words)

Is he just being a typical boy or does he like me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6473 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey agony aunts. i have been friends with this guy for about 6 yrs and have liked him alot for ages and since last summer, wev started texting each other very flirty messages and then a few weeks later when we met up he kissed me. but that was 6months ago and eventhough we ... (92 words)

I need a counsellor really, but not sure where to get one, anyone on here able to help me out!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My life is a real mess at the moment, have some serious relationship problems that I can't really go into at length in just one question. Could really do with some one to one counselling/advice. I know there are some professional counsellors that help out on here, would one ... (75 words)

He emailed her and arranged to meet! When confronted he said it was just to see who she was! Is this cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - A woman on myspace was sending my husband emails. She would tell him how she would like to meet him. One day he went to a local computer store to email her and in the email he gave her his work phone number so she could call him. He changed his password. I managed to get his ... (250 words)

Married 9 months, shes seeing someone else! I said I can look past it if she cuts all ties! But shes carrying on! Am I too demanding!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 9 months. In recent weeks, she has been going out late with her friends/clients to clubs, or for coffee. Few weeks ago, we had a major fight about her coming back at 7am in the morning and that left her angry with me for not trusting her and ... (486 words)

Is once a day normal to masturbate when your 15 ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 15 and am currently going through adolescence. I'm ejaculating / cumming once a day and am wondering if that's the normal rate someone should do that sort of thing... thanks for any and all replies. :)... (38 words)

My BF of 2 months has a 14yr old daughter, shes telling her mum shes jealous im seeing her dad!! What should I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, he lives an hour away and I come to stay at his home every weekend. He lives with his 14y/o daughter. I never been with a man who has a teenager daugther before so I don't know how to react or communicate w... (415 words)

I want to marry my lesbian lover, but how do I go about this when gays cant marry in America!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance we are a lesbian couple. We both have wedding rings. Everyone knows that in america Gays can't marry. And she is in the military. I want to have a serimony in my back yard and let one of my friends say our vows instead of a priest. and all the people comming ... (106 words)

My ex's parents are always over at my house, more so than when we were together, are they spying on me!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Advice needed! My ex broke up with me at the end of last year. His parents, who I have known since I was born and really get on very very well with (our mothers were friends), seem to be coming over to our house alot more (both planned and on the spur of the moment) and goin... (374 words)

I cant get an erection when with someone new, any advice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have had sex alot, but every time I meet someone new i cant get it up. Im so nervous can you give me advice?... (26 words)

Our sex life was always good, but since having a baby he cant sustain an erection! Anyone know why this could be ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, At last I hope I found someone to help us. My husband and I have had proper good sex for four years. Then we lived far from each other cause he left to work in another country. We only met again seven months later. We were together for one month and the sex was good. We... (165 words)

I prentended I was her ex and emailed her to see how she really feels, She loves her ex! How can I carry on knowing this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my lesbian partner have been together for almost a year. We also live together. I pretended to be her ex and e-mailed her. Pretending to be her ex I told her that i miss her. And that's when I found out how she really feels. She was saying things like "I love you", " I ... (133 words)

My Ex husband and I still have sex, he said he only married her out of spite!!! What should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age - my ex husband and i still sleep together. He says he remarried for spite and does not love her what should i do?... (24 words)

My ex wants to get back with me, but his friend claims my ex cheated when with me, did he only say that to get with me instead ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for a year and recently broke up with him because he had lied to me about drugs and things like that and I couldn't get over it. Anyway I hung out with his best friend a couple nights ago and his best friend (of more than 10 years) told me that my boyfriend had ... (131 words)

I was raped a while back, a guy friend showed some support, I was weak and things went too far, should I tell my BF ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd been with my boyfriend for four months when I was raped on my college campus. The thing is I'd left for school only a few weeks earlier in Florida--very far away from him in Cali. For the rest of the semester he was like my rock, and things were great, but naturally I was ... (447 words)

If hes cumming and we are not using a condom does that mean I'm pregnant!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) age 30-35 - While me and my boyfriend are having sex,he says "Im cumming" Does that mean im pregnant if he doesnt use a condom?... (24 words)

Dating 3 weeks, we want to have a baby!! But whats considered the right time to move in together!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

3 April 2007 (M)

- ok let me start this out by saying i'm 24 nearly 25 in june and my new girl is 20 nearly 21 in september we've been dateing for 3 weeks nearly a month and i've slept with her once. she's stayed at my house twice and we didn't do nofthing the first time. 2nd time we had sex.... (676 words)

Im finding it hard to read him, is it time to say goodbye!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

- I am a little confused right now and know that I can get good insight here. I have been friends with this guy for about a year and a half and we have been getting closer in the past couple of months. I have been trying to hold off on having sex with him...he has wanted to come ... (200 words)

Are all these signs pointing to pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to be pregnant so bad, and I think my body is playing tricks on me. My breasts are sore around the nipples, I have been constipated for the past 4 or 5 days, and I cried because my husband wouldn't help me clean the house. I already have a 2 1/2 year old daughter and I ... (169 words)

I'm 17 and having sex with all the wrong people! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

3 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and i've had sex with 5 people. I havent even been sexually active for a year and i know this is too much. They havent just been random people, one night stands, but i havent felt comfortable enough with them for sex yet it still happened. I don't know what to do ... (487 words)