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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My partner is thick and unhelpful. I am unhappy and wish to leave, but my kids love this place.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have tried telling my partner how I feel, but he does not listen, I talk and he is quiet. When I ask what he thinks, he stays quiet and and it's like he is a brick wall, just stood their doing nothing. I want to leave but my kids are happy here, but I need to be happy to and ... (80 words)

Long distance relationship seems to not be working out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this a slow, odd LDR beginning, or am I being blown off? I know LDR, and relationships in general, often take time to start, and they can be awkward, confusing, exciting times, etc. Here is my situation: I met this man last fall while in his city for work. It was an ins... (555 words)

My boyfriend was looking at other women online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I caught my bf looking online at other women but now he has deleted his profiles do you think this could be a red flag how can I trust him again?... (31 words)

My guy says I am annoying in a nice way. What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I love said I'm annoying in a nice way. What does he mean???... (15 words)

Boy I like is now texting my cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having problems with this lad I really like because he used to ring me all the time. Then all of a sudden he stopped then i found out he as been texting my only cousin and it's really upsetting me wat should I do? ... (47 words)

We met online and saw each other, but now he decided to talk through the net again. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man on the internet he came to see me and i went to see him I have 4 kids he as 1 then he said he just wanted to be friends. We where talking for 3 months before he decided we still talk to each other other on the computer what do i do keep talking to him or make a ... (94 words)

My girlfriend keeps sentiments from her past lovers. I feel uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age - My soon to be wife has pictures, love letters and cards of serious old boyfriends at our home. They are not exposed but kept in boxes in several locations. I know they are sweet memories for her. But they tend to bother me because of the depth of intimacy in them. I want to ... (87 words)

My girlfriend seems to have some security issues and this is messing with my head.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi my name is Steve. I'm 23 and I'm in a new relationship but she is pregnant with someone else's child. My girlfriend is 18 and I fell in love with her very fast but the only problem has been her ex boyfriend causes a lot of problems - he kept coming over and making death ... (438 words)

I have a thing for my teacher, and I have growing desires for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok i wrote up about a week ago for some advice on how to get rid of these feelings for my teacher and the person who replyed asked me to post it again but a bit shorter as she didn't undertand it. Right, when i was at juniors there was this teacher who was my favourit... (373 words)

My boyfriend is inconsistent to what he says to me and how he acts.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost 3 years wanted some space. It was really almost impossible for me to give it to him because it really hurt me. This past weekend something bad happened to me and he said that because of that he realized how much he loved me. Things where fine except he ... (176 words)

I fancy this girl who has an emotional boyfriend. How can I help her without getting between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

- Hey guys, um im single atm, but ive became very interested in a girl. Problem is she has a boyfriend, i have been speaking to her everyday for a few weeks now and she tells me everything. She told me that isn't exactly happy with him. He has recently told her that if they split ... (135 words)

How do I improve my confidence with guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy very much. We are in the same class. I want to know if he likes me too. However, I am the kind of girl who is very shy around boys. How can I not be shy? What are some tips to help me talk more freely to them? What are some signs that a guy likes you back? ... (67 words)

I'm annoyed that I have to pay for everything when we go out on dates! How do I bring this up with my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This isn't so much a problem as an irritating niggle, but it's one I'm having difficulty in figuring out an answer to. When my GF and I first started dating, on each date we went on she would offer to pay. I'd generally decline and pay myself, she'd accept this on conditio... (157 words)

My boyfriend and his mom are very controlling towards me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and his mom are very controlling towards me. I kind of live with him, but not all the time. I have alot of friends that want to spend time with them, but every time I want to hang out with my friends my boyfriend and his mom goes off on me. I don't know what to do, ... (134 words)

Wife said she was unhappy just prior to the birth of our son. Now she says the marriage is over and I am doing all I can! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently married and just had a son 2 weeks ago. My wife has told me about two months before the baby was born that she feels unhappy. She claims that I do not give her enough attention. I feel like I spend lots of time talking, and being affectionate towards her, but ... (323 words)

Should I tell his wife, he was cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I tell his wife that he was cheating on me? Today I found out that he is married. I met him 2 years ago and he is in Iraq. I found out from a friend that he is married and his wife lives in TN. I can't believe all the lies. Should I tell his wife?... (57 words)

The condom split but he didnt cum, could I still be pregnant ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently had sex with my boyfriend and the condom split, however he had not come and had only been inside me for a short while, is there a chance i could get pregnant?... (34 words)

Im married and bisexual, if I were to hang out with a women and have fun etc! Would that be considered cheating ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a married, bisexual woman. I feel in a difficult position. If I were a lesbian, I would be a faithful partner to only one woman. If I were straight, I would be a faithful partner to only one man. But since I'm bisexual, I have a need for a man and for a woman. I'm ... (154 words)

His dope habit is taking over, he doesnt care about anything but getting a fix!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in a serious relationship with a man for six years now, and we just had a baby six months ago. He smokes marijuana, but maybe since the last three years he started smoking heavily, His only concern is how to get some and when he is out of money he does anything to find it ... (116 words)

Hes stressed with exams and stuff, he keeps blowing me off and Im feeling unwanted! Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My borfriend is studying for exams and is quite stressed. I am feeling very left out and unwanted and he keeps blowing me off for friends. I wrote him a letter explaining how I felt and he gave out to me saying I was being selfish and it was inappropriate timing. He said some ... (83 words)

Im having relationship doubts, is it because shes so demanding and clingy ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (M) - I think im having relationship doubts and have been for a while. I don't know what it is I just sometimes look at my girlfriend and get irritated by her just looking at me. I feel that she is always watching me and my every action. In the past few months we have had our dis... (150 words)

How do I get my female friend to risk it and date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a close friend who I developed feelings for, and I really think she's the one. I've tried asking taking her out on dates, but she doesn't want to risk our friendship. There is an attraction there, but how do I get over that barrier and possibly get her to give me a ... (88 words)

Shes lost the love she had for me, but shes okay remaining friends, what should I do I love her still!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i have been having probs with my girlfriend we have been together 5 year we have split up in that time here an there we got back together again last october we have stayed very good friends even made love when we was not as a couple and she just split up with me last week as ... (131 words)

He seems to have just thrown our friendship away, Im hurt because I dont know why!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've worked with a guy for 4 years and we used to be best friends. He's a lovely bloke and I used to enjoy talking to him, spending our lunch time together and generally getting along great. We're both in relationships so it was a nice, calm friendship. Anyway, a few mont... (155 words)

My GF causes a row over the fact I share my car with my twin, does she think the car is hers aswell as mine!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (M) - After only recently passing our driving tests [A few months ago] me and my twin bro share a car as we can't afford one each and we can't fit anymore on the drive anyway. I generally go out more in the car than my brother and I have it up to 5 times in a row however when my ... (165 words)

I wanna make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared I'll be the worst kisser ever.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared I'll be the worst kisser ever...like I don't know how to move my lips or my tongue or anything like that.... (31 words)

How can I get my dad to like my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my dad doesnt like my boyfriend. My boyfriend is really sweet and my friends like him. I dont know what to do?... (24 words)

How do you give the perfect blow job?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna give my bf the best head but I don't kno how to do it...also I've never done it be4... (21 words)

He said I hurt him when I jacked him off, I feel awful now, how can I "do it" properly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I jacked off my bf a couple of weeks ago and when I did this I could feel the skin going back I imagine this hurt him but then it kinda sounded like he liked it so I kept on doing it harder well when we finished and went back 2 my house he told me I hurt him so bad ...I felt ... (72 words)

How can I stop my jealousy when my boyfriend talks to other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im jealous of my bf talking to other girls. I trust him but i dont really know the other girls well. Ive told him before that im jealous and he used to say I love you and only you. But know when i tell him he just says ok and yesterday he said it was annoying him! Im ... (83 words)

Is there anything I can do to cheer my guy up or will I just have to get used to feeling so useless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im not sure what to do about a situation with my fiance. He is a really really great guy, very loving kind and caring and always treating me to nice things when he can. When we first got together he was so much fun and i loved spending time with him. Things seem to have cha... (484 words)

I cant take my over protective boyfriends behaviour anymore, trouble is we have a child together!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 7 year is too over protective and says hurtful things all the time. i don't think i can take it anymore. I am just with him because we have a child together. Help... (39 words)

He told me I was boring then said it was meant as a joke but my confidence has taken a blow by this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - I've recently came out of a relationship, in this time I met another boy as a friend. After my relationship ended I began to have feelings for this new friend I had met, I had been told he did too. We met a few times and got on really well, although when one of my friends ... (287 words)

He says he isnt the jealous type,but I think he is!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 4 months tells me he's not the jealous type but when he asks me what I did in my day and I tell him I went out with my best guy friend/former ex...he tells me I annoy him cuz' I keep mentioning his name when I'm telling him what I did that day...then I tell him ... (84 words)

I was having an affair, I'm now paying the price. All I want is my Martial Art back, Should I go back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair with a married man, currently losing friends and I have had to give up Kung fu. I don't know where to start I have been having an affair with a married man from my kung fu club since last August. The affair finished mid March ….. February last year I spil... (838 words)

Nothing more was mentioned about our date, do you think hes gone off the idea ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im 20 and there is this guy that i like whos 22 and he really likes me yet nothing is happening between us. we text for hours during the day, speak on the phone for hours and he has said he really likes me yet when i suggested a date he said yes but i had to go before we ... (141 words)

I dont like him hanging out with his friends, Is it because Im scared of him checking out other girls ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - me and my bf has been going out for almost 11 months, but i still have problems with him hanging out with his friends. I know i'm beeing selfish, but i'm trying so hard to be ok about it. So everytime i hear about him hanging out with them i start getting mad and we end up not ... (76 words)

Was he attracted to me, or what is just the alcohol ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Heres my story. Only lately I have accepted that I might be gay. I have liked a guy younger than me for the past few years. He is 15, and I am 18. One night he stayed at my house and we got rather drunk. We sat together like old mates, but eventually we both ended up ... (407 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant like this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - if a girl was to be fingered by a boy whilst on her period, and his finger had sperm on it is there a chance she could become pregnant?wb please xx... (31 words)

Should I tell her that I think its her parents influence stopping us dating ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 25 years old and want to go out with a girl who is 18 in June. She likes me a lot, but she says she can't go out with me because I am too old for her; however, her parents are strict about her dating people my age, and I have a theory that the reason is not because I'm ... (99 words)

My wife is using the internet, but its to meet men I think! Im worried!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife of 6 months had been together for 2 years. About a week ago she had been making plans to visit a "friend" in Pensilvania and i know it was not going to remain innocent. I found out and she promised not to use the internet for such things. Now she is getting friendly ... (78 words)

I need others in my life, someone I can depend on, how can I get this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i feel so easily discarded by friends and i dont know why I keep getting left. I try very hard to make the people in my life feel important but when i need someone there is no one i can count on. Ive been trying to strengthen ties with some friends i've lost contact with but i ... (178 words)

Together 4 months, ready for the next step (sex) But how do I tell him!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i've been with my bf for 4 months now and feel ready for the next step with him (we have done other stuff but not that) i think he is too (it will be his first time not mine) just i don't know how to bring it up with him. Things had been bad but now eveything is sor... (96 words)

My sister is only 14 and going on the pill, Is this just so she can now have sex ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My sister is being put on the pill, and she is only 14. She is a virgin, and she says she wants to have birth control to help her periods. She just got her first high school boyfriend. As her sister I am afraid that she is doing this so that she can have sex. Although she ... (95 words)

Is he cheating on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for a year and a 6 months. Then about three weeks ago he was on the chat line on his phone and got this girl's number and started talking to her. Now he calls her every night. I caught him doing something one one with her on the phone. Is he ... (62 words)

My boyfriend sometimes covers my head when we have sex. Why does he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

- Sometimes when my bf and I have sex, he throws a blanket over my head (this is usually in the doggy-style position) Is it that he wants to fantize about someone else and not me? (porn was on.....and one time he had a torn pic from porn mag) When I saw the pic, my high from ... (155 words)

We had our ups and downs and now wants a break. How can I make him realize I am the one for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my story, please if anyone can help with advice: I am 23 and my boyfriend is 26. He is not from the US and came here to work and start a life. We met and things were amazing, we hit it off right away. We decided to move in together (probably too soon). Things were ... (434 words)

Our relationship no longer include tenderness and affections as it used to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6425 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - So my bf and i have been together now about 2 an a half years. I've had serious relationships before, but I was ready to get out of other ones by the year and a half mark, or so, and none lasted to two years. So this is the longest thing yet, and I still care about him ... (339 words)

I'm 12. Do you think I am too young to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 12. Am I too young to date and all that junk?... (14 words)

I feel lonely and drown myself in drink every morning.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem i am lonely and I drink before I go to work in the morning I have an Irish Coffee than when I go home Scotch and Whisky I need help. *Moderator Note: next time, extra information would be helpful - eg: your situation, why you are in this situation, and what you... (60 words)

We broke up recently, and he wanted to remain friends, but is avoiding me completely. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

- Hope someone can give me some help here. My boyfriend took me out to a nice restaurant a couple of nights ago and broke up with me out of the blue. To cushion the blow, he said he would be there for me thru this hard time and that we would stay friends. Now he has cut me off ... (122 words)

I feel that I like both men and women. How do I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have recently discovered that I am bisexual and have lately been having an urge to perform oral sex on other men. I know for a fact that none of my male friends are gay or bisexual and I don't know how to handle these desires, what should I do?... (50 words)

If you got rejected, but later he wanted you, would you accept him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6425 days ago

20 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Ladies (and guys if you can) If you liked a guy and you were very shy when it came to romance and so was he and you showed him in everyway (body language etc) that you loved him but you didn't say it and he did too. You tried making a light move on him twice (stand alo... (139 words)

Go for the best mate with the great looks or the best mate with the great personality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

20 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have started college in september and i really like two guys the problem is the are best mates. One is really good looking with a nice personality but the other is not as good looking but with a great personality! The problem is they both flirt with me and i am confused ... (69 words)

Would my ex college tutor get in trouble for kissing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have recently left college ( age 18 uk ) and i was out on a girls night out when i seen one of my tutors! He is only 28 and we got chatting and we ended up kissing! Could he get into trouble and could we take it further? ... (50 words)