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writes:what if the guy u love is dating someone ele?i really love him see befor we got together i told him i was pregnet and he said he didnt carehe said it was gonna be his and he tells me so manythings so sweet.... i really love him and i dont want to lose him he said he just dont know if he wants to be with me what do i do plz help me Reply to this Question
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (10 April 2007):
let him go. he could always get someone who will love you as much as you love him. a guy like that doesnt deserve you. trust me
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (10 April 2007):
 Trying to trap a guy by claiming to be pregnant is not exactly the way to build his trust. If you're serious about trying to build something with a guy, he needs to be able to trust you.
My bet is that the sweet things he's saying are every bit as real as that baby you were about to have.
Hang around waiting for him if you've got nothing better to do, but if I were in your place I'd write this one off as a lost cause and try to learn something from it ... like being more honest with the people I wanted to be with.
Probably not exactly what you wanted to hear, but I think it's probably the best you're going to get out of this situation.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (10 April 2007):
 Dear anonymous writer,
First of all are you pregnet with his baby? If he is with someone else and dont want to be with you just let him go you have more importent things to worrie about you have to worrie about that baby, you are still to young and there will be other guys in your life so just let him go and worrie about that baby of yours!
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