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Do you bleed the first time?

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Question - (10 April 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a virgin and what i'd like to know is if you definetly bleed the first time you have sex?

And also if you bleed still when you've broke your virginity?

Thanks

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntNot all girls bleed but most do. xxxxxx

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A female reader, peppersalt United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2007):

Not everyone bleeds, you can break your hymen through sports, horse riding, masturbation etc.

I must have done that somehow because I didn't bleed at all the first time, it didn't hurt too much either. If you do don't worry, lots of girls do and as long as the guy knows it's your first time he should go slow and it will be as exciting and arousing as possible.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007):

Many girls bleed after having lost their virginity but the amount varies from girl to girl.

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A male reader, ask stivy +, writes (10 April 2007):

ask stivy agony auntSome girls do bleed their first time but there is more of a chance that this will not occur. But if it does don't worry, some guys find it arousing or some don't even think twice about the matter. Just before you have sexual intercourse make sure that, that lucky guy is aware of you still been a virgin and he will respect you for telling him!

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A female reader, luvme247 United States +, writes (10 April 2007):

luvme247 agony auntI didn't bleed my first time until afterwards when I went to the bathroom there was a little bit of blood when I wiped but that is all. Maybie I am just a rare case or something ;)

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2007):

maxsteel86 agony auntThere's no gaurantee you will bleed, there's a chance you wont. But you know, just cos you didn't bleed doesn't mean you wasn't a virgin. Google it, there's plenty of cases where the girl didn't bleed the first time.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (10 April 2007):

penta agony auntI didn't. I'm guessing some do and others don't.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007):

yes you will but it will go away and then you will like it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007):

yes, you do and you will the first couple of times, then you will enjoy it .

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A female reader, PoSiOnKiSS United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2007):

PoSiOnKiSS agony aunti used to think that when you had sex for the first time the blood would come gushing out, but i was so relieved when all there was was a trickle of blood. The tiniest smigiest blotch of blood. There isnt much and its really nothing to worry about. Just enjoy yourself x

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