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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I tell him I need foreplay first without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend a while now and sex just isnt improving. like when we go to have sex he just wants to do it straight away and no foreplay is really initiated. he gets all turned on and i dont know how to tell him that i need foreplay first to get turned on without ... (63 words)

Does my flirting co-worker really want to date me? How can i raise the issue with him, and find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and this guy from work constantly flirt and get on really well..... everyone has been asking me what is going on between us and whether i want a relationship with him... but i honestly dont know!!! i think this is because i dont know how he feels, people have asked him but ... (75 words)

He's my soulmate and I can't imagine a life without him. I am so hurt that we split up. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 years just ended what seemed like a perfect happy relationship. I thought we were soul mates and would be together forever. I thought he felt the same until out of nowhere he told me our relationship wasn't working and we couldn't be together anymore. I am... (182 words)

Does one my buddies like my ex gf secretly? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone This is continuing from my last posts (my most recent http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-dating-another-guy-and-im-so-upset.html). I would recommend please, that you read my previous posts before reading this post thanks. My social life sucks! Basicall... (406 words)

Our sex is getting boring, but I dont want to lose him as hes not making me complete, so how can we change this ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are very sexual, yet I think that is all he thinks about now. I enjoy the sex, but it is gettin boring. We are stickin to the missionary position and I'm startin to lose feelin of it. He isn't "big down there", yet I love him so I don't wanna lose him cuz he ... (97 words)

How can I tell if this time I really am " in Love " and its not like just like before ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 20. ok i know this question gets asked alot recently but im not sure what to do. I dont know whether im in love or not and i know everyone says that when ur in love "you just know", but i feel like i am now but ive felt like this in the past and then afterwards ive ... (117 words)

How can I still love my ex, when I havent seen him in 3yrs and am engaged to be married!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am engaged to be married to the most wonderful, loving, generous, kind man I have ever known. The problem is I am still in love with my ex, and I cannot shake these feelings for him no matter how hard I try. I do keep in contact with my ex, but have not seen him in almost 3 ... (154 words)

I want the fairytale! Marriage, Love kids etc... But I can never sustain a relationship after the first flush! Any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to get married and have kids. I am now 31 and have only managed to hold down 1 relationship for 10 months (I dumped him) and the last one for 3 months (which I suspect was a rebound relationship on his part; he dumped me). They both ended on really really trivial ... (254 words)

How do you know when your being used ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when you are being used?... (9 words)

Im in love with her but Im to shy to talk to her! How can I speak to her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am in love with a girll and will like to marry her but my problem is that im shy and whenever i met her i loose the confidence to speak to her. tell me what to do ... (38 words)

I think I want to end the relationship, but Im not ready for him to date others! What should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - okay im back again, this time im seriously contemplating ending my reltaionship for some reason we just can't seem to get on, but im scared that im not strong enought o move on with my life and start again also i don't want him to get with another girl. recently he een winding ... (114 words)

Hes been distant lately, and says he has man probs! Ive said Im there for him, but its difficult when he when talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - things have gone quiet with my boyfriend for about over month now,he still replys to texts but they tend to be quite general and he never makes the effort to text me.He says he has man problems but wont devulge what they are so ive told him im there for him.We live away from ... (179 words)

Even though it seems like a lost cause, is there a way I can try and win back her love ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i need some help... me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months 3 weeks and i love her more than anyone ive ever met in my life and she felt the same way until about 2 weeks ago when she said she started to like another guy but she wasent sure and she pushed t... (461 words)

Split up with my bf and met a new guy who has a gf! But I feel he's playing me. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid , i feel so stupid writing this , i need a way out im screaminig inside , even if i dont get any replies i suppose writing it down helps right wednesday about 2 weeks i split up with my boyf of one year and 3 months , im 16 hes 23 he lives in leeds i live in brum ... (448 words)

I dated him 7 months, we broke up but I love him, He said maybe we can be together in 2-3 yrs, is this likely or even possible!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what can i do? Im a 15 year old nearly 16 and I think im in love. For 7 months me and my boyfriend was going out and said we loved each other every day, but he moved away 2 months ago, he has since dumped me and said he has a new girlfriend. I asked him if we ever have a chance ... (138 words)

We agreed we were dating and not to date other, but he did!! Im so confused and hurt, am I wasting my time ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age - I am a 46 year old divorced woman and I have been dating this wonderful guy (51 divorced 3 times) everything was going great and btw we have been only dating a month. He moved very quickly and having me meet his family and telling me how much they like me etc. We said when we ... (604 words)

My PMS is really really bad! Im driving everyone nuts and nothing seems to work! Any one know anything that will help ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i would really like some help from any person who has been throgh this or even has a suggestion. My promlem is this: i get really bad PMS i mean really bad. Whever Im pre- menstrual i get so moody and emotional, im also really sensitive to touch and i retain so ... (103 words)

With this measurements would you say Im fat ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

- Am i fat? I'm 5'7''. My Bust- is 34 My Waist is 27 My Hips- 38 My inside leg- 21 ... (34 words)

With my boyfriend for 2 yrs, Sex is painful, I'm still a virgin, worried my relationship will end because of it! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 23yrs and have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs,we love each other very much and have a srtrong relationship only i have one major problem im finding it very painful to break my virginity weve tried loads of times but it hurts me to much,im very embarresed i dont no what ... (75 words)

I love my best friend, I think he loves me too! How do we both get this out to one another ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i've had deep fellings for my best friend for about 2 yrs, i love him so much and i think he lloves me. recently his friend told me that my best friend did feel the same as me and doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if he knew i was going to be told but these past few ... (134 words)

I am in the last year of uni before I get my law degree and I am pregnant! What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

- I'm 24 years old, and am in my last year of university, of doing a law degree. Things looked very promising, but I've recently found out that I'm pregnant. My boyfriend is very supportive, and he's a doctor with a secure job, so I know that we could support the baby. I've never ... (152 words)

This new guy is really giving me mixed signals. Should I just forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i really like this guy at work im currently in a relationship but want to break it off i dont love him any more and thinking about spending the rest of my life with him just puts me off even more, we have become friends not lovers. Anyway this new guy at work i really like hi... (171 words)

I want to contact an old friend. How is the best way of doing this?

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1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to contact an old friend. How is the best way of doing this. I was thinking about writing her a letter i know her address and we were good friends. we broke up when we left school because i had a boyfriend. i really miss her but im not sure if she will be interesed in ... (67 words)

He calls me names when things aren't good between us! I don't want to leave him so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and boyfriend been going out for 2 years and i love him so much, but we agree almost everyday. i dont know what to do anymore but i cant leave him. he calls me names but when things are good it's good. when it's bad it goes over the top. i need and want help. he chooses his ... (70 words)

I'm just 18 and I am so embarrassed about my body! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - HI everyone i just truned 18 and im so embressed with my body i am getting married in may and and feel uncomftable about it.....i have stretch marks all down my thighs and it seems like they are getting bigger and darker, and i have them all up the side of my stomache which ... (139 words)

I'm so jealous that my bf "'cuddled up" with my friend when he was drunk! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i just want to know if im just being over-jealous for no reason. a friend ("andy") has told me he really likes me and wants to be with me but i think he might just be playing me because the other night a group of our friends went out but i couldnt make it. when i met up with ... (173 words)

I feel so betrayed that he went to a prostitute! How do I deal with my nager?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 20 yrs visited a prostitute, how do I handle this? My husband and I have been separated for 9 months, he moved out 3 months ago. I had told him that I needed him to share himself with me, that I needed him to talk to me, make me feel important to him, love me ... (420 words)

My friend wants to date but I am seeing another guy! I feel guilty so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My best friend recently told me that he was in love with me We're both only 17 and he tells me I am the first girl he has ever properly liked and that he thinks I am perfect. He tells me he knows that he messes around but that if I gave him a chance I would like him how he ... (222 words)

Im a teenager. Is it normal for me to be attracted to both sexes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

- Dear Agony Aunts. Im a teenager. Is it normal for me to be attracted to both sexes?Thanks for your help.... (20 words)

After 3 months of silence he contacts me again and now...no contact again! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - After 3 months of silence, we got talking again andhe expressd great desire to meet me again though as 'friends'.. i agreed.. he mailed back that he's out of town for somedays but "we'll meet soon"... havn't heard from him again (except that he fwded a mail last sunday to all ... (86 words)

I'm just not sure how attracted to him I am physically. Should I date him or stay just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - This might seem quite stupid... but it's doing my head in at the moment! I've recently gotten to know a guy in the year above me at school...I'm 17 and hes 18 I know he likes me lot. My problem is this: how do I work out if I really like him or just want to be friends? ... (153 words)

He says he wants me to have sex with another man! I am shocked..should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend were discussing our sexual likings and leanings a few weeks ago. The usual things were discussed - but I was shocked when he said that I should sleep with another man. I asked him if I'd heard him correctly, and he said it was true. I also asked him if... (160 words)

How does one know when you have fallen in love or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when you have fallen in love or not?... (12 words)

I'm 23 and she's 15. Now she's saying she is going to take my explicit text messages to the police! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old male. I met a girl on a train, who was 16. We swapped numbers after a chat, but never met again. However her friend Laura has been texting me for a long time. Laura informs me she was 16, and we have had a few explicit conversations, but never met or done ... (140 words)

I feel trapped and bored...is it him or just me? I don't want to lose him so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 20 year old male in my first gay relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend for over six months now. In the first couple of months everything was fine and easy. I didnt feel uncomfortable around him, never had to think about what I said and always felt at ease and happy ... (222 words)

How do I break free of this obsessive, thought pattern. Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Every new relationship i form with someone, i enter thinking that may be i will get something from them that i have been craving for since young. So i am quite excited. Soon i realize, i may not get what i want and get disappointed and develop dislike for the person concerned ... (119 words)

I dream about him, it may sound obsessive but its true...what should I do? Does he like me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid... I have a problem. A huge problem. There is so much to explain. Basically I went to primary school with him. I was very shy and I always thought I loved him. Though I never told him, so we just stayed friends. But in Yr 5, he actually sent me a letter asking me... (470 words)

My partner is depressed and getting angry and emotional!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear agony aunts, My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 and a half years and have a 3 month old baby together, however. We have recently been having problems because my partner is depressed because of things he has on his mind. He gets angry or emotional when h... (124 words)

Am I just dreaming??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - So here's the deal. I had a long distance relationship for a while and eventually I moved to be with her. We lived together for about 3 months and then I had to leave again. The plan was for me to come back a month later and we would be reunited. However, at this point she star... (374 words)

The ex husband is having regrets about our split. I want to start a new life without him...any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

- Hello, ive asked for help before and had some great advice so hoping you can help me today. My husband and I split 8 months ago, im just starting to feel ok again - we've had very little contact other than discussing money for our mortgage payment or conversations about the ... (218 words)

She's having an abortion...don't I have a say in this? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - judgement day .. my 22 year old girl says she will have an abortion on Wednesday. Her parents are acting suspicious as to the fact that she is pregnant. She is a christian(pentecostal family) she says she will do it. I am also christian. We don't condone abortions at all. For ... (140 words)

A relationship with isn't going to work...we argue all the time. I need tips on how to tell him just that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - For a teenager, 2 years is a long time to be in a relationship. This 2 year relationship ended when we graduated and went to college 8 months ago. We are still 'friends' or wahtever you call an ex you sleep with. I don't hang out with him wanting to sleep with him but he ... (348 words)

What am I to him at this moment? Just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey hey... i would like to ask.... theres this guy that likes me and i like him... we havent met but have only spoken over mxit... but dont worry he's not one of those dodgy poeple.. he's one of my freinds freinds... the other day we were just talking and suddenley it turne... (342 words)

Why does her past relationship with this other guy...bother me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m 17 and have been with my girlfriend for over a year. We have a great relationship and I honestly cant fault it however her past seriously gets to me. Before me she was in a serious relationship for 6 months. She never see’s him now and never even talks about him but just ... (110 words)

My bf is going to visit his ex gf-the girl he fell for hard! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend for a month now he's 16 and im 15. i do trust him its just...He told me about this girl he really fell for and has never liked anyone as much as her before. He met her on holiday and became really depressed when he had to leave her. This happened ... (170 words)

Will someone please tell me why I treat my gf so horrible yet I love her so much?? Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - will someone pls tell me why i treat my gf so horrible yet i love her sooooo much,im never there when she needs me yet shes always there for me no matter when.i have had numerous gf prior to this one,yet i didnt treat them as bad as this.i know if things dont change im going to ... (85 words)

I told him I loved him, he stayed silent!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my boyfriend I loved him and he said nothing what does this mean?... (15 words)

How do I get her to trust me, after she's been abused by her bf?

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1 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - there is this girl that i like and i am planning on asking her to be my girlfriend. the problem is that she has had really abusive boyfriends and can no longer trust boys as she used to. is there any way that i can convice her that i am a good guy and do not want to harm her? ... (70 words)

Having an affair and I have no guilt from my behaviour. What do others think about my troubles?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age - I've been having an affair with someone from work for over a year and a half now. I have a marriage where we sleep in separate beds no sex or any type of mutual passion for either one of us. My wife also suffers from depression and bladder problems is currently under medication ... (136 words)

When I'm drunk guys feel me up and take advantage! I feel like a slut--what can I do to stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When i'm drunk, occassionally i'm taken advantage of a fair bit, not overly far or anything, some guys will just start feeling me up yet when i wouldn't want them to. I do stop them from doing this but not immediately, like my common sense doesn't kick in till a while later. Is ... (82 words)

His sister is coming between us... Has she not heard three is a crowd!? Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My Partner and i have been living together for 2yrs however we have just moved back to our home town to be closer to both our familes. However his sister is driving me nuts! We plan weekends away and she has begun to invite herself along too( clearly the saying 3s a crowd ... (133 words)

I'm staying round my friend's house, but her boyfriend has this thing for tickling my feet and I'm worried it's getting out of hand!

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1 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,this will probably sound quite trivial compared to some of the posts i've been reading here but i can't really discuss it with anyone i know so any advice would be a real help. I left my partner back in november and accepted my workmate julies offer of a room until i got ... (328 words)

While he's away, I'm seeing a new guy! Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy who is practically perfect, but there is no spark with him. I know that he likes me a lot and we have only been dating for a little bit. He is shy and doesn't have experience with girls. He has been away on vacation for the past week and I have been spending time ... (83 words)

He says he loves me but it's okay if I break up with him! What's this guy thinking?!

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1 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i have a boyfriend right well we talk alot on the phone and we been in our ups and downs and ive been with him about 3 months already and he tells me that he loves me that im the only girl for him right and i belive him but sometimes he tells me that if i want to be with ... (105 words)

Should I just forget the dance lesson and ask her out?

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1 April 2007 (?) - a girl i like offered to teach me how to dance. she told me she'll tell me when we can start. few days later i asked, she said she'll tell me. again i've talked to her online yet she still hasn't told me. i dont want to keep asking. this would me my best chance to be close to... (96 words)

I feel like she is tossing our love aside for her selfish need to experience freedom. Any thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl for nearly 2 years, we're both about the same age. After we both turned 21 she let it out that she just turned 21 and wanted to experience that freedom that goes with it. On top of that, she also wanted it because she is planning a trip to Europe and wants ... (169 words)