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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know whether to trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf has really hurt me. we've been together for 3yrs and obviously had our gd n bad times as any couple does. we took a brief break over a year ago and we both made new friends. sadly theres this one girl (his x's best mate, the girl he saw on the break) who he was texting ... (402 words)

We had a great relationship and had plans...now he's suddenly decided he doesn't want this! I am shocked! Please advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Last April I met a good man and we developed a good relationship. He was offered work in Gibraltar last July. I didn't pressure him either to go, or not take it, as it was too early on in our relationship to decide whether we were going to stay together long term. He decided ... (451 words)

Sensitive problem needing advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has a problem and she's not quite sure what the solution is. She is not willing to ask a doctor, because she wishes to remain unknown. She came to me for advice but i dont know how to help her. Her hymen was already broken so this ceases to make sense. When being ... (107 words)

He tried to rape me, but I want to give him another chance. Is this wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - umm, i have a question 4 you. i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago because he tried 2 rape me. i was in a state. but now i am starting 2 ave feelings 4 him again. I want 2 give him another chance. is this wrong?... (48 words)

How can I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Dear Cupid; I need your help to give me advice and strength to get out of a relationship I am not supposed to be in.... I am in love with a married man ! Sounds aweful right ? I know, I blame myself everyday. He is a much older man, in the beginning he... (240 words)

My mother's driving me insane! I have no social life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this isnt the right place to ask help for this matter but i really need some advice. me and my mum dont get along with each other at all. we have a fight every single day bout the littlest things. its like she loves 2 fight!! it really annoys me and i cry everyday ... (159 words)

How do I get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok...me and my girlfriend broke up like two weeks ago. But i still love her...a lot, and she must have lied to me, because she told me she just wanted to take a short break, and she didn't want a boyfriend right now, so she lied to me, and she said she is over me, but is she, ... (140 words)

Should I ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, Well where do I start, in My local cafe there is a beautiful girl who i used to see with her dad when she was in for a drink sometimes and when I went in today I found she has started working there, well to describe her she is simply one of the most nicest looking ... (191 words)

Her vagina muscles push me out before I can orgasm. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - im 18 and i have been with my 17 year old girlfriend for the last 3 years, we lost our virginity to each other about 18 months ago but when ever were having sex the muscles in her vagina push me out just as were about to orgasm, loosing the rythm and spoiling the mom... (84 words)

We're trying for a baby but I can't come inside her. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi can someone please help, me an my girlfriend have been trying for a baby for the last few months, but were having trouble, when ever were having sex i can only come on her never inside her, i dont no y and its getting to the point were im thinking there could be ... (123 words)

Does a girl need a PAP exam even though she's on birth control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - If a girl is on birth control for her periods, does she still need to go get a pap exam if she isnt 18 yet?... (25 words)

Bf wants to do some strange things. Not sure I approve. Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very physical relationship with my boyfriend which I love. He is highly sexed and masturbates usually a couple of times a day as well. I don't mind this, as sometimes I do it for him. Recently, however, he's asked me if he can ejaculate all over my face. He says he's ... (108 words)

She's going to a different university. Do I end it now or carry on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my girlfriend just as I left for college. I was enrolled at the Univeristy of Nebraska at Lincoln, and I am still attending. My girlfriend now wants to go to college... she is going to the University of Nebraska at Omaha instead... I am concerned because UNL is a far ... (110 words)

I'm scared he was grossed out when he fingered me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I got fingered for the first time by my BF a few days ago and it was really unexpected, just out of the blue and stuff so I didn't have a chance for a proper shave and now I'm really worried that he was grossed out because I hadn't shaved i cant stop freaking out about it, ... (62 words)

We used protection but am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my bf on the last day of my period which was a month ago..... We did it 2 times and used a condom both times we did it like 2 hours apart..... The condom didn't break or anything but I'm scared I might b pregnant...... Someone help!!!!... (51 words)

How does a break from a relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - If you're planning on taking a break from your bf/gf what happens? How do breaks work? DO you talk to your bf/gf? Do you see your bf/gf? How do you cope while you're in the break?... (36 words)

Does he like me? I don't understand his actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I am 15 and the guy I really like is 20. Crazy thing is he was the one who was checking me out first, then he started winking at me, then talking to me and about a week after we started to talk he broke up with his 22 year old girl friend. So we have gotten pretty close ... (137 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend i'm still friends with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and things are going well. I also am still friends with my ex and hear from him probably once a fortnight or so and we occasionally meet up to go to a gig. My question is that my boyfriend doesnt know that I am still ... (154 words)

What can I do to make his first night back romantic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) age 41-50 - hi guys, Havn't seen my bf as he's been away visiting family for a few weeks and i want to do something special for him when he gets back. Was wondering if i could get some ideas to make our first night romantic and let him know i missed him! What do guys want? ... (59 words)

Could someone give me advice on how to chat up girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I do not know how to start chatting up with girls, can you give me some ideas ? thank you firas... (39 words)

How much space should I give my bf whilst on holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

- Hello, Me and my boyfriend are both in our late teens and have been going out a while now. We have a really good relationship and i love him to bits. This summer my family are taking our yearly vacation to this small town beside the sea and i invited my boyfriend. It ... (156 words)

I'm seeking anger management. Is this the right thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an attitude problem. My baby daddy and I had a long talk yesterday. He told me that he does love me but my anger problem is what is keeping him away from me. I told him that I was willing to get professional help? Did I make the right decision to seek anger management? ... (74 words)

We had a falling out! Should I not bother trying to fix things or try to patch things up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have posted twice before over the last two days about how I have fallen out with one of my best friends who is a girl (neither one of us wants anything more than friend ship and she has a boyfriend)we have known each other for eight months but feels like longer. I have been ... (236 words)

Been battling depression for 5 months, and I have forgotten how to feel! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to be the most cheerful person youd ever meet but ive been battling depression for quite a while now,almost 5 months,it started out severe, i couldnt eat i couldt sleep couldnt concentrate i was just very negative. Its not as severe anymore i think i have just gotten ... (143 words)

He 's a heavy drinker and unpredictable! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice, I am totally devastated. I have recently tried to reconcile with my husband after being apart for only 2 weeks. He's a heavy drinker which makes his personality very unpredictable and usually hard to deal with. He begged and pleaded for me to go back to him ... (408 words)

He gets home at different times every day...does this mean he is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - my b/f doesnt work in an office..but doesnt leave at an exact time everyday..like he will say this job took longer than expected or i was cleaning out my truck etc etc..so sometimes he gets home at like 6pm or sometimes 7..if we were living together..i probably would be mad if ... (80 words)

My bf said he hated 'head'...what does he mean exactly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i asked my boyfriend what are his turn offs and he said that he 'hated head'. Ive got an idea what this means but im not totally sure. Can you tell me what he means?... (38 words)

My husband doesn't help me with anything! How can I make him understand I need him to help me raise this family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help!! my husband is 28 years old and im 26 with 2 girls 5 and 6. Ever since we had our children i have raised them by myself because he is so selfish to help with anything. he works in the oil patch so he has a lot of time off. When he's not at work he sleeps untill he ... (183 words)

He ran off with another female and left me holding the bag! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

- I just can't seem to get out of this depression. In January my boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up. He had been distancing himself since November and I felt it but I didn't know what to do. He had been hanging out with this girl from work... whom I felt uncomfortable about, yet ... (380 words)

He survived his cancer and I want to date him now-how do I let him know this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, Okay... There's this guy who I've known for a little over 7 years. Three years ago he had wanted to start a relationship with me which caught me by total surprise since I never looked at him in that way. He is a very great guy but at that time he was sufferin... (160 words)

He wants me back but he's lied to me and I'm having a real problem trusting him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my boyfriend almost two years. We were friends first and he finally won me over (I turned him down at first because I thought he was too young for me) I fell for him pretty quickly and thought we'd be really happy together. However we hit a wall soon ... (382 words)

How do I strike a balanced way of seeing things so that I can relate with people the way they are rather than trying to see them the way I want to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have failed to found a person, yet, a friend or a girl who could really understand my deeper feelings and would appreciate the same or accept them to be normal. Because of this, i am losing faith and don't find it worth relating with any human being no matter how good he may ... (336 words)

My brother is protective of me, but I fancy his friend, last time his friendship suffered! What should do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't get my brothers friend out of my head! wot can i do? my brother is really protective over me, plus i've already been out with one of his friends and it got serious so their friendship suffered and i don't think he would want that to happen again. a lot of my broth... (98 words)

Does this happen to all inter-racial relationships ? I really dont want my Bf to hate my parents and vice versa!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend is British and I’m Chinese. We both live in Canada. We have been dating for 1.5 years and are very serious about each other. His parents love me and even want us to get married soon. On the other hand, my parents are cool (literally) about our relationship. My dad ... (275 words)

Thoughts on dating...any opinions are welcome!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age - Of the many questions I see here regarding problems with our bf/gfs, the following from a well-known dating site on choosing the "right" partner is worthwhile, I think: KNOWING WHO MAY BE RIGHT FOR YOU means first, knowing your own traits, values, and relationship ski... (509 words)

Im 16 hes 40, I cant imagine life without him so how do I get him ot marry me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote yesterday "So many boys want to date me but I reject them all for my married neighbor who is 40! I'm 16. He is married but only see his family twice a mth over weekends coz they are overseas. We have been seeing each other almost daily for past 2 yrs, and I dont mind to ... (168 words)

Does sex harm your baby ? And do men get stretchmarks ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have actually got 2 questions:: does it damage ababy if you have sex while you are pregnant?? because i am pregnant but my bf wants us t still have sex and.. do men get strechmarks?? might seem silly i jus wondering ... (46 words)

I have a low self esteem and dont hold any of myself in high regard at all!! Please help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hate my body and my low self esteem is beginning to distract me from everything else that i should be focussing on. I actually feel a constant disgust from just being in my skin, i can't look at myself in the mirror without seeing all my imperfections and how horrible ... (165 words)

I'm a black woman in NY, and I have a thing for white men, trouble is I dont seem to be their type around here! Any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I am not sure how to deal with this... I am a 32 yr old single black woman in NY. I am also a single mother. For some reason lately I seem to find myself more and more attracted to white men. Now I know there is nothing wrong with this, as I have dated white guys... (149 words)

Why do I seem to always find the players when it comes to men in my life ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have fallen for another guy, now im no prude, ive been out for 15 years, its just my last two boyfriends were secretly into cottaging and cruising and they kept it secret from me, it broke my heart, now 8 years later, over four years i think me and my best mate are falling ... (280 words)

I have a greater connection with my new GF than I ever did with my Ex, so why cant I get her out of my head ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I split up with my ex girlfriend a year ago after 5 years (she was my first serious girlfriend). A few months after we split up she got engaged to another guy and moved in with him. I met an amazing girl who I have a great time with. I feel I have a far better connection ... (101 words)

He told me I was cute! Why would he do that when he already has a GF of 1 year ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my friend yesterday.. just spending time with him. He has a girlfriend but she knows we're just mates and has no problem. He msned me last night and told me how cute I was etc and that he liked me. Why would he tell me that when he's got a girlfriend he's been with ... (62 words)

My Gf is always at work, never has time for me, she wont have sex everyday so I wont cuddle her, what can I do ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 27 and my girl is 26 I have a problem because she is always at work and never have time for me. she would come home and she would ask me to cuddle with her. I told her she knows i cant do that because i like to have sex everyday and she dont want it at all what can i do?... (65 words)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?... (11 words)

My bf has just gone away for a spring break, Im worried he will make out with other girls!! Any ideas how I can find out if he does ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a month now. He just left to go to cabo, mexico for a spring break trip, but he went with his family and best friend (his best friend is a party type of guy). My boyfriend is not known for cheating but it is spring break and he can ... (161 words)

Any ideas how I can win my bf over again ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do am trying so hard to make it up to my boyfriend (i didn't cheat or out) and things are bad right now we said we would give it another go but he been funny with me and is pulling away i think he is doing it to show me what it feels like and am feeling ... (118 words)

Why does this unusual feeling happen in my vagina when I sit down ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - why do i have this feeling down my vagina when i sit down sometimes? sometimes when i sit down on a chair or couch i just get a random feeling in my vagina. i do not think of sexual thoughts but sometimes i do. i just again get that random feeling when sitting. this fe... (110 words)

I dont trust him, we broke up as he like someone else, hes still in contact with her and were are back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I still trust him? My boyfriend were going out for a year. Then suddenly he broke up with me, with not that good of an explanation. At that time, he got pretty close with another girl, and 3 weeks after our break up, he admitted to me that he likes her and it only sta... (136 words)

I really like this girl but shes a 15yr old mum, what can I do my parents wouldnt approve ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok I am in a predicament.....i have a major crush on this girl she is 1.5 years younger than me....that isn't the problem the problem is that she has a kid. It is just a very odd situation....we met on the internet and we talk allot she lives in the same town as me we have ... (87 words)

We are from the USA and my bf thinks that we wont be able to mess around below the waist as I will be classed as a minor even though I'm 17, anyone know if this is true ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 17, he's turning 18 in a month. We both want to stay virgins, but he's telling me we won't be able to mess around under the waist because I'm still a minor, and I would have to ask specifically for it every time with nothing from him. It sounds bogus to me! The Age of ... (90 words)

We hang out and he tells me he loves me, but why wont he ask me out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I talk to this guy everynight on the phone and we hang out on the weekends and sometimes after school during the week. We have done stuff together and he tells me he loves me, but he won't ask me out. Why won't he ask me out?... (47 words)

The age difference is 5 years and Im only 14, does this really matter ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old and My boy friend is 19 years old. I really like him a lot.I am very mature for my age. People dont believe that i am only 14 years old. Every guy around my age arent mature and i hate that so much so I tend to go to older guys. My friends keep on saying that ... (87 words)

Its my ex's fault that I got run down by my gf, I want to get my ex for GBH, but they will see it as my GF's fault!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i typed a question about being ran down by my gf. i have a cousin who looks just like me this is what i thogut it was you know, mistaken identity. but it turned out her freind told her that she saw me leave a woman's house, this is where it gets tricky, my gf's freind is my ... (116 words)

I've always loved him, hes never interested, but now I think Im falling for his twin brother!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for 2 1/2 years. I never doubted i loved him, but he ignores me. We went out last year, but over the summer, he said it would be better if we waited untill high school, next year. I believed him, but now he's going out with someone else, and I really hate ... (143 words)

What is the appeal of younger women to older guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive just started dating a man who is older. Now obviously he appealed to me because he is good looking and more mature than guys my age. What i want to know is, what is the appeal of younger women to older guys?... (47 words)

We are LD, we are engaged, and I do want to marry her, But shes talks so openly about sex with others, that Im wondering is she right for me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship now with my fiancee and sometimes she gets on the edge, we had a row and she told me that the fact that she loves me does not mean that when i get her upset she will not make mistakes of going out to look for comfort from male friends. the ... (277 words)

I've been chatting to this guy on the internet, due to meet, but what If I dont like him in the flesh!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

11 April 2007 (?) - So i've been talking to this guy on the internet. we "met" through a mutual friend that i go to church with and he goes to school with. Well, we've been talking for awhile now and he wants to hang out this weekend. I really do want to meet him, but i'm worried that when i meet ... (88 words)

I'm 15 and the whole thought of sex feels me with dread!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I hear about people my age having sex all the time. I am 15 and right now sex isn't even an option for me. Like the thought of someone inside of me kinda grosses me out. I am 15 and wondering if I am ever going to over come my fear of having sex. Like everyone says it only ... (140 words)

I opened up and told my husband about my past threesome!!! He cant move on from it and its destroying us! Please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a serious marriage problem. My husband and I have been married for 15 months now. We got married while he was in the military, and we were separated for 13 months. We have been living together for 3 months now. Everything was perfect in the beginning. We thought ... (234 words)

I want her to be more affectionate, shouldnt she be comfortable being affectionate after 2 months ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. She is really self conscious, and she even admitted it. She and I have held hands, etc, but at school she doesn't like anything else but hugging. I respect her space and comfort, but I really want to be more affectionate, ... (71 words)

What if I fall in to these lonely lust traps and never in love, am I doomed, should I leave relationships alone for a few years ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I unfit for relationships? I posted on this site a couple of months ago about a relationship in trouble which ended shortly after. It was painful but I was sure it was the right thing to do. Since then I've been trying to get on with things (I've come to realise that all I ... (174 words)

Any ideas how I can break the ice and ask her on the date ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (?) - i'm goin to phone the girl i fancy tomorrow over the phone and ask if she'd like to go on a day out with her and my friend? so the four of us. any ideas how i can break the ice and ask? it's my first time calling her! thanks,... (50 words)

Im 18 and hes 26, worried that all he sees us as is sex, even though he talks about he future ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 18 and i am seeing 26 year old man and i am confused about what he really wants from me. He talks about the future but what about now what am i supposed to wait or just move on its hard because i have feelings for him that are strong.I caught him beating off and it turned ... (78 words)

I'm confused I only see my bf once a week as hes always busy, but he is dead romantic! Am I being selfish ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confussed i never see my boyfriend only once a week because he is always busy playing footy or going to see his dad...and he puts me last all the time but he is a ded romantic person and shows alot of care ..i want to see him more am i being selfish?? I prentend to him ... (84 words)

I 'm finding this real tough but how do I forgive, so that I can move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you forgive someone? My ex made me feel really uncomfortable one night. Him and his best mate were teasing me so much it felt like bullying and he has since apologised for making me feeling uncomfortable and hopes I can forgive him. I would like to but I felt he ... (104 words)

I have feelings for someone who won't commit to me...how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - what am i supposed to do when i am catching feelings for somone who doesn't want to commit to me yet wait or stay? and i caught him masterbating? Our relationship started out sexual only then it evoloved into more and in confused now i dont want him dealing with no one than me. ... (54 words)

My husband told me 5 days ago, he fathered a child with another woman! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

11 April 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been with my husband for 13 yrs, married for 7. My husband told me 5 days ago that he went with another girl in the village and she has now informed him he is the father of her child. She is 9 yrs old!!He says she has only just told him and she is now asking for ... (144 words)