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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How does it take me so long to cum when I have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - on my first 3 times i have had sex i havnt been able to finish,I can go on for a good 30+ minutes, then i have to masturbate for 10 minutes afterwards to actually cum. If i masturbate when im alone i finish in about 3 minutes,just when i have sex ... (52 words)

he said its because suddenly he feels as tho he loves me.. but hes not IN LOVE with me?? what the hell does he mean, how does this happen?!?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked him why he split up with me after 10 months of being besotted with me... he said its because suddenly he feels as tho he loves me.. but hes not IN LOVE with me?? what the hell does he mean, how does this happen?!?!?... (47 words)

How can he just block me out like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My first love of 10 months.. finished with me a few months ago because of 'arguments'.. he seemed totally in love with me and I certainly was with him. He broke up with me and told me never to contact him again.. he said it was because of arguing.. when I've tried calling ... (143 words)

Do I bring it forward and come clean about what I have done? Should I just say nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known this girl since we were in the first grade. Our families are very close. She was my best friend when we were younger and though we have gone our separate ways and have not been real friends in a long time, I think so much of her and have always felt like I needed ... (252 words)

What can I do to spice my relationship with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

7 April 2007 (F) - What can I do to spice my relationship with my boyfriend? We've been together 2 years but are waiting until marriage for intercourse. Is there anything i can do to make him desire me more, or get that new exciting feel again?... (43 words)

What can I do to make oral sex better for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F) - hi everybody i really need some advice. i seem to be bad at giving my bf oral sex and i feel really awful. he is the first guy i've been with sexually and we are still waiting until marriage for intercourse so I'd like to be able to pleasure him. we've been together almost two ... (161 words)

We had a terrible argument and he hasn't called me for 5 days, what do I do? He KNOWS I'm pregnant with his child!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been dating for 1yr. I found out 2wks ago I was pregnant. We talked about it I told him I was going to keep it. We knew it would be hard seeing that we live 3 hrs apart. he just found out a week ago that he got a new job offer to move where ever he wanted. I ... (132 words)

How do I stop my boyfriend being so clingy and how do I tell him he's being clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a very clingy boyfriend and I need help to tell him that. He's my first, and I've been with him for 2 years. During that time though, we had a lil' drama with a third-party and I broke up with him but later reconciled. Now however I'm overseas for 1 year and enjoying ... (320 words)

Any advice on how to get the man I REALLY want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyone any advice on how to get the man you really want?? I really like my next door neighbour, its a long story but i just dont know how he feels about me and i really want to know. We have been out once and every time i go out i seem to bump into him. When we see each oth... (144 words)

I want to have girl friends as well as boyfriends but my dad won't let me have any boy "mates."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to hang out with friends as friends go to parties and have some fun. My friends dont do drugs and they drink some but I do not as the taste of alcohol I just dont like. I really just want to hang out with a bunch of people including boys in it....my dad espeically says ... (142 words)

He says he wants "life experience" yet regrets breaking up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this guy three years ago. He was much more into the relationship than I - the first one to say the "L" word, first one to suggest we move in together. Six months into living together, he tells me that he's not ready for a permenant relationship, an... (181 words)

I don't feel he's treating her right but I don't know what to do either! Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

- Hello all. I'm once again, needing advice from you all. An agony aunt myself, I thought it would be best to see other people's opinions on views on what I should do, rather than what I "see" as the right thing to do. A girl I used to go out with has been going out with t... (446 words)

He's so sexy and he says that he loves me but i'm having trust issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6221 days ago

7 April 2007 (F) - I am a 25 year old single mother of one.I have been involved with a man for three months now.This man is so different from the others i've dealt with in my lifetime.First of all he has a 3 year old daughter by a woman he says he was never in love with.This man has never ... (338 words)

I man I had sex with is blackmailing me and my bf for a repeat performance! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma, I am in a very loving relationship and have been for 5 years now. A few days ago I came home to find my bf in bed with some one else. When he saw me standing there in shock he moved and I realised it was actually another man, my initial shock wore off a... (173 words)

I can't shed the memories of knowing what she did with my friend. any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Almost a year ago, I went on a trip with some friends of a friend. He is one that I've known for many years. During the trip I coupled with a girl and we had sex. During the trip my friend also said that his girlfriend involved another girl in their having sex while everyone ... (225 words)

He slept with her during a break in our relationship, but he still sees her now! It's driving me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get over this? My boyfriend and I are so very in love but early 2006 we split for 2 months and during this time he had sex with another woman who was his friend at the time. He says he wishes it had never happened and I believe him but I just cant come to terms wi... (335 words)

he doesn't seem to care and is cold towards me. Should I carry on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am empty and completely confused. I have sacrificed my home, job, and sanity to make a 2-year relationship with the father of my daughter feasible, but something is terribly wrong. He is divorced with two children from a previous marriage, and somewhat bitter about having a ... (771 words)

My partner is feeling guilty about leaving her husband and kids to be with me. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age - I have lived with my girlfriend for a year now after courting her for a while before. I had seperated from my now ex-wife and she had seperated from her husband. My partner had always done everything in the house for her husband and her two sons 18 and 24 and she has had to ... (589 words)

I need more confidence in myself for starting realtionships. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Basically, i am a 21 year old female who has been single for just under two years. Although i dont think that this is a huge amount of time, the time has affected me quite severly i think. Firstly, i am not unattractive - although i have very low self confiden... (152 words)

I'm married yet i'm beginning to have feelings for another man. I don't know what to do.

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7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 24 and i ve been married for 2 years, recently i ve been having feelings for this guy who i met only once, we talk to each other almost every other day. The more we talk the more i want to spend time with him, i think about him all the time even though i try not to! I ... (72 words)

Can you have sex with a girl without her getting "emotional" about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it possible for a girl to have sex with you without getting emotional? I really get nervous when i get close to a girl as she becomes emotional and then i just give up thinking about having sex with her in that condition. Please advice.... (46 words)

He doesn't seem the same now we're back together. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend since 1998. We were separated for 9 months and had other worthless relationships. We got back together almost a year ago. We have a 4 1/2 yr old child and another one on the way. I have noticed in his actions that he is not the same. After talking ... (150 words)

I find it meaningless to relate emotionally with girls . Can this create problems in the long term?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Please help, i am a single guy and have got some serious issues with girls. I just find it meaningless to relate emotionally with girls mainly for the kind of control they seek and demands they put. So i can only think about having wild sex with them but not real love making. ... (67 words)

I'm dating my cousin's best friend. Is it wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i met my cousin's best mate at my cousin's wedding, he asked me out for a coffee after that and we have been dating since then. my cousin came back from his honeymoon last week. should we tell him specifically? its not WRONG is it?... (53 words)

I can never come during sex. Any tips on sex toys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

- hi everybody i need help. i have a partner but i can never cum having sex. so we have to do a lot of playing. can anyone advice me on the best sex toy going to do the job. x... (40 words)

I snapped at him and now he won't answer my calls. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope you can help me. About two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I had a very serious talk about what we want the relationship to go. He wanted to work things out and would do whatever it takes. For the first time, he opened up to me a lot and I felt this is the beginning where we ... (289 words)

I really like him, but he confuses me! I don't understand what he wants

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7 April 2007 (F)

- ok, i am really stuck! im 20, i have just split up with my boyfriend two weeks ago after a year and a half, i really like somebody, but he really confuses me, we slept together and go out alot but then after some time he will say to me why do you like me? and im no good for ... (112 words)

Me and Bf going through rough patch. I have no idea how to fix it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my names kerryann and me and my bf are going through a really rough patch and have been for about 2 months now . he told me that he had cheated on me once night and got this girl pregnant and then he told me that it was'nt true but since then things have been really bad and ... (150 words)

My bf has a female friend. Is it okay for her to stay in his home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a boyfriend who lives in france, we have a long distance relationship and we have been together for 6 years now. he had an internet female friend from taiwan who is married and came to france for a holiday with her sister. is it okay for him to let them stay in his home? ... (74 words)

My bf's sex drive is lowering. What can I do to fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F) - my b/f and i dont have sex like we used to..we see each other 2-3 days..i remember last year a lot of times we would have sex 2 times in one night..lately its like once or twice a week..he doesnt seem as interested in it. Like we used to have it at night and it would be kind of ... (232 words)

I drunkenly cheated on my girlfriend. Do I tell her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi,I'm a 27 year old male and have been with my girlfriend for a year. After my 1st real love 4/5 years ago I had been single for about 3 1/2 years - i can't simply go out with anyone for the sake of it. Then I met my current girlfriend and it's amazing, we're great together, ... (289 words)

I love him but he's been two-timing me with his fiance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man at work who was in a long-term relationship... we started off being very good friends but then became alot closer until we fell for each other. I kept it quiet and we continued to go to lunch, dinners, drinks together... We got to the stage where we would pash here ... (285 words)

How do I stop ejaculating so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - how do you stop yourself from ejaculating to quick? I used to be able to last longer!! but now seem to be to quick, is it because im enjoying myself to much? i wnt my gf to enjoy it aswell its not fair.... (44 words)

I text him to find out where I stand and he didn't reply back! What's he thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

- i told him i really liked him!! i was really upset knowing i wouldnt see him for 3 weeks (because hes going to the usa) so I text him and just said i cant face you going to america without knowing where i stand with you because i reli like you tb xx but one hitch, he hasnt te... (104 words)

I'm curious about men in porn. Am I gay!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've never been one to watch porn, but I must admit that it does make me interested and a bit a annoyed when they don't show the full front of the guy on tv. I've always been having issues with my sexuality, but even with porn I'm more attracted to the males than the females... (94 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm a slut for not saving myself for "the one" !! Am I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i lost my virginity to a guy i wasn't in love with or in a relationship with (though i was really attracted to him). i have no regrets about not "waiting" or "saving" myself for "The One." to me, the sex was a purely physical thing. does that make me a slut? i told my curr... (120 words)

I like this guy, how do I know if he likes me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

7 April 2007 (F) - dear cupid, there is this guy and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me what should i do ... (33 words)

He says he loves me but the other women is still around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of three years and I decided in November that we wanted a child. It was discussed and agreed that we would get married and most definitely if I were to get pregnant. I conceived almost immediately and a month later, I began to feel a distance from him. A few things ... (411 words)

Parents were divoreced because dad cheated! He remarried and I think hes cheating again! Do I say something ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so, my mom and my dad got divorced because he cheated on my mom. then, he had the nerve to introduce me to his lover. then he dumped her, andhe got married to this awsome woman i call my friend. the problem is that i think he is cheating on his wife with his past lover. i found ... (110 words)

She just suddenly left me for someone else after 7 yrs, what should I do with all her stuff ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (M)

age - My girlfriend of 7yrs has walked out,offering no explanation and is seeing somebody she works with. I have tried to contact her,without stalking or phoning her all the time but she will not respond. I have to accept that the relationship has ended,but what should I do with... (146 words)

What can I do to make sex and putting on a condom more natural ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - He is one of the sweetest guys I have ever been with and, although our sex life is realtively good, he gets immediately turned off after reaching for the condom. He is much less experienced in bed than I am and he gets quite nervous about the subject being brought up and I ... (91 words)

We broke up and decided to get back together, but he needs space first, is this right to make me wait ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been together for 2 years... When we broke up, we got together one day just to spend some time together. We ended up having sex, and I ended up getting pregnant (Im just making a long story short here). He told me that if I got an abortion, we could get ... (206 words)

He says he's not in love with me anymore, is this now over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. We dated for 5 years before we got married. We were having some problems because he always wanted to go out with his friends drinking instead of spending some quality time together. We are both 28, he works nights ... (175 words)

Going on vacation in a month, hes away so wont see him till at the airport, any ideas to make it special ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hay guys me and my boyfriend are going on vacation in 1 month! hes been away on army training so the first time i see him is at the airport! i no im so excited! i wanna do somat nice for him when we get there! not sure what? ive had thoughts of sex underwear and that but i just ... (77 words)

Why does she need me to go meet up with her friend ? Does shes like me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

7 April 2007 (?) - a girl i met a few days ago wanted to go see her friend who is also my friend, and go see him at his work place. she's asked me 3times via text but i couldn't make it all 3. i got another text askin if i can come tomorrow! what's this all about? does she like me? funny thing... (117 words)

His meddling mother doesnt like me and has got another girl she thinks is more suitable to date him!!! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

7 April 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i posted a question about a month ago, about my fella and the mother in law from hell showing a letter i wrote to him to everyone! well now shes become un belivable! i cant go on like this! my fellas coming home in a few weeks and we have agreed to move intogether! but ... (149 words)