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writes:When is the best time to perform oral on my new g/f? Before or after pentrative sex? If this makes her come will she then want sex? If I do this before sex then shouldn't climaxing for her happen at the end of our love making, not the beginning? many thx Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (13 April 2007):
There is obviously no right or wrong answer to this. But here are some things to think about.
If you enjoy going down on a woman, then you can score points with your girlfriend by doing it as early on in the relationship. What it shows is that you have time for her, and you are not just out to get your rocks off as quickly as you can.
Going down on her before intercourse can get her excited enough to make the intercource experience that much more exiting.
If you are not wearing a condom (and you know you should be... but assuming you are not), you might not want to go down on her after you have ejaculated. You might not mind it, but if you've never done it before, don't do it early in the relationship when you are both still feeling a little nervous.
Don't ever worry about a woman climaxing early on! There's nothing wrong with that... and you just might become skilled enough to give her another one... and another. It's worse for YOU to come early on, so hang on, pleasure her first, and then yours is just a bonus at the end.
Just enjoy, respect, be safe, and don't get overly technical about things!
I hope this helps....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): I suppose it depends on a lot of things, mainly when she wants it. Can she actually come from just sex anyway? If she can, you both might prefer it if you both come from sex. But if, like most women, she can't, I'd go with making her come through oral first, then having sex. Women are more able to 'go again' after an orgasm than men, so there's no reason that she would not want sex because she's just had an orgasm.
Plus if she can't come from sex, and you have sex and you have an orgasm, you probably won't be in the mood to make her come then. Or necessarily go down there on her.
Mix it up, do it different every time you fuck. There are no set rules, just play around! But make sure if she can have orgasms, that you give her one as often as you get one. :)
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reader, mylove_5757  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Personally, as long as you keep the mood going, I bet she will be in the mood for anything. Personally, I like it after. Because then even if I feel like I just want to cuddle or something you have always had sex before so, hope that answers your question.
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reader, pfairypepper +, writes (11 April 2007):
I suggest you give her oral sex before you have intercourse. Just turning her on like that will make sex ten times better. But be warned, if she does orgasm while you are giving her oral then she might not be as excited about having sex right after.
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