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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have lived with my boyfriend for 4 years, we have been together for about 6. About 3 years ago he started having what I consider "inappropriate relationships". He was buying calling cards to call other girls after I say numerous calls on his cell phone bill. He claims all these girls "are just friends". This has become a habit, about every 6 months or so these numbers show up on his bill or I come across a 7-11 calling card. He says he loves me and these girls mean nothing, he claims there is nothing physical. Girls and Women text message him at all hours and he has even changed his number to prove he loves me. Even bought me a "promise ring", but the same things keep happening. I feel like I shoudl wake up and smell the coffee????
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): I have a similar problem with my boyfriend.I know he would never physically cheat on me but he keeps smsing these chat rooms and adult entertainment adverts in the paper.last wkend I found all these smses on his phone from all these stripper type chat rooms. Its happened before a few times and I've asked him not to do it everytime and he keeps smsing these girls.He says he does it cause he gets bored,but why doesnt he just sms me.he mostly seems to do this when hes using narcotics.I never really set the bounderies and told him its me or his "Adult entertaiment buddies".But I did last wkend. For the 1st time in this situation I stood up for myself.An it felt good. Hes the kind of guy who uses reverse psychology and makes it look like its my fault.I would never do anything like this or cheat on him and he knows it.I am quite a jealous person but I dont try control him unless Im telling him to stop doing this. Ive told him how much it hurts me and he knows it does but he keeps doing this Why? Any1 got some advice I Love him and I know He Loves me. But I also feel like I should wake up and smell the coffee!Not Relly advice sorry, just letting you know your not alone.
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