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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Im in love with a married man. he has gone back to his wife to have a baby. Why do it to her and me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007): u shouldent be messin with a married man any way, he marriedher not u u was just a sideline.get over it its people like u that make it hard for us married woman find your own man
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007): You can't have seriously thought that this affair would go anywhere. If a married man is cheating on his LIFE PARTNER, the one he stood up in front of God and everyone and promised to love and cherish until death do us part, he does not take his vows to mean I will love only you, but will love only you untill.....
He chose to love her until....and you are just a bit on the side....if you are not happy with sloppy seconds, then don't chose that for yourself. He did not do anything to you, you let him in your bed.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 You have the right to love anbody you choose. Along with that, you will enjoy the benefits of the pain it causes when you choose to someone who is already taken. The truth is this. You feel bad because you gave into temptation and now you're paying the price. The reality is your "rights" are of little importance, because you actually have none. Its like the bank robber trying to justify why he deserves the money. You are only going to get the leftovers because you agreed to be the third player in a game for two. Move on, make better choices about where you give your love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): I suspect he saw sense and chose to honour is marriage rather than carry on with an affair. You should respect that, and you should think about his wife's feelings and put their happiness and their marriage before your own needs. Stay away from married men, they will only ever cause you pain and heartache.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): Why did he do it? I would hope because the man is a person who recognizes that his first priority is HIS WIFE - not you - and that he has a conscience and chooses to act ethically now, even if he had been having an affair with you.
You have no right to be "in love" with someone who belongs to another woman. Having an affair, either purely emotional or physical, is cheating. Forget him and thank your lucky stars he's out of your life.
Hope you find another man who WILL be free to love and commit to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): because he wanted his cake and eat it to and yeah it hurts so just move on and forget about it and don't go back think of what you'd do to his child
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