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I dont want sex to be a chore in the future, so how do we find the right balance ?

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Question - (10 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2007)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

there's a lot going on in my life at the moment and i think my sex drive suffers because of it. I can't seem to keep up with my mans demands sometimes. i think it hurts his feelings and i love him deeply and dont wanna make him feel like that, however i dont want to just have sex for the sake of it for fear that it will begin to feel like a chore in the future... any ideas? help please!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007):

Then make it so there is less going on in your life so your sex drive doesn't suffer. Easily fixed if you're willing to make that sort of organisational effort.

I disagree with the first post. If you only had sex when you wanted to then it would be a bit unfair - as you'd be getting sex when you felt like it but when he felt like it he'd have to go without.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007):

Only have sex when you want it, not just when your man does. Why don't you make sex more interesting by changing it slightly each time? That way it isn't just the boring old routine everytime.

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