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What if I kiss someone for the first time and they say I'm terrible?

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Question - (6 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

ok ive just turned 14 but ive never kissed a boy i guess ive always been waiting for a nice boy but now i just feel really embarassed because all! of my friends have been going on about how there boy friends are really good kissers and i really want that but im dead worried that if i do kiss someone for the first time that they'll say im terrible im just so worried about it that i just want to get it over with what should i do i really need help x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009):

dont practise on ur hand! it dont work, just yah like irishangle said.

not too much tongue just go to the middle. everyone kisses differently, most guys are worse kissers then girls :) and yah a guys dont really say that ur a terrible kisser and if he does just say he didnt know what he was doing. say there was to much drool and he bit ur toungue, turn it around on him :)

but good luck oh and dont think when ur kissing just feel i guess, oh and always swallow before yah dont want alot of spit

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A male reader, Gurner69 United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2009):

Dont worry for a girl its a lot easier than a guy. All you have to do is half open your mouth and let his tongue enter your mouth. Now if he is doing it correctly he should be massaging your tongue with his, now you should do the same thing back. Not for too long tho, just keep both heads tilted and your eyes closed and gently rub each others tongues for a maximum of 15 seconds then slowly retreat. After nailing these basics you should feel more confident and then how you choose to progress is entirely up to you.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (6 November 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntTry practicing on your hand.

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A female reader, irishangel Ireland +, writes (6 November 2009):

When you first kiss someone you will be nervous, but if the guy knows what he is doing he will guide you and you will just fall into it without knowing, just respond to what he is doing instead of taking the lead and then you cant go wrong!

P.S. The only way a kiss can go wrong is too much tongue so don't go all in and you will be fine!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2009):

Relax. A good guy won't comment on it. So if there's a guy you like, get to know him first so you know's a good guy and everything else will just happen.

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