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writes:I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): Yes, she is pregnant right now.
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reader, superdolly  +, writes (5 November 2009):
scare her. tell if the boy who gets her pregnant is old enough you won't think twice about getting him done. no offence but youre silly for getting pregnant and youre so silly for bragging about it but u sound mature if shes alredy pregnant not much you can do really you can't force her into an abortion but its certainly not natural she probably just wants to be you i used to wanna be my older sister all the time id steal her clothes and her makeup and everything but i wasnt about to go get pregnant at 12 tell her that she can help you raise the baby and she can look after it and give it back when it cries :)
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reader, blueyedgirl +, writes (5 November 2009):
 I'm not sure if you are saying that she is already pregnant or that she wants to be, but I think that this is probably not as much about pregnancy and babies, as it is about her feeling left out. Talk to her, she may be feeling like you are "more important" than she is because of the baby, and if she gets pregnant then she will be just as"important" as you are. Or she may just want to experience what you are, because of how much you are enjoying it. Either way, talk to her, find out her reason. If she isn't already pregnant then try to talk her out of it, he she is then all you can do is be there for her and help her make the right decisions for her and the baby. Most of all, make sure that she knows that she is loved for who she is, pregnant or not. :-)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 November 2009):
 Have you talked to your parents?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 November 2009):
If she isn't pregnant, then suggest that she helps you with baby duties, such as nappies and feeding, so she understands what being a parent is really about. That might scare her for a while and make her think.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 November 2009):
 I don't know, maybe lock her up and throw away the key until she's 20? Either that or have her babysit your kid all the time, that should take the "inspiration" away quick, fast, and in a hurry.
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