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writes: [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.]ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do???Also, why havent i got my peirod yet everyone else has and there making fun of me cause they think if you have it they can automaticlay turn into a woman and have s**. but why dont i have it ..??? not that i wanna have sex but why dont i have it and can you tell me a little about it?????????????????thanks
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (6 November 2009):
I started my period when I was 14, everyone is different, I would talk to your mother about it, ask her when she started her period, and your aunts too. Change the password on your laptop and put parental locks, that will put a stop to your brother looking at porn.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 November 2009):
I like the parental control idea, that's easy to put in. Ask your mom or dad to do it if you don't know how.
Every girl is different and so your timing may be different from your friends. Don't let them get you down. The ones who have it secretly don't want to, trust me. They are messy and until you learn how to cope with pads and tampons, it may keep you from doing some of your normal activities, like swimming for instance.
Women who are no longer having periods still have sex, so having a period has nothing to do with that at all, that's a silly immature thing to say. Just because they're menstruating, doesn't make them any smarter, now does it?
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/womens-health/menstruation-20696.htm
There's good information there.
You'll have your period before you know it and then you'll wonder why you were so eager to have it! It's a natural part of growing up and it helps keep womens' insides cleaned out but it can sure be a pain in the patootie. I don't want to complain about it too much but you'll find out what I mean.
Your mom is an excellent resource for this as she has gone through exactly the very same thing that you're facing now. We don't forget things like that as we get older. No matter how senile and decrepit we seem to be. ;)
Good luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 November 2009):
Put the parental blocks on your laptop, or have your mom do it. As for your period, girls can get their periods as early as 10 years and as late as 18 years and it falls in the range of normal. Why not have this discussion with your mom? She will be able to fill you in on some of the family's history regarding menstrual cycles.
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