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writes:I've divorced my husband after 15 years together. He is controlling and I just followed his decisions all the time. The last year before we separate he shaved his head and lost a lot of weight and refuse to have sex. Then I met this 20 years older man he is caring and we just hit it off and have a lot of sex. He is a wealthy man but very mean with money. He wont decorate his house or buy better food to eat. The sight of his house is depressing. I've got my own house so I think I can put up with it. However 2 years on now I find it increasingly annoying that he doesnt spend some money and improve his house. Sometimes I just dont feel like to go to his house. He always says materials is not important to him. Sometimes I dont even want to see him. Is there any future in this realtionship. I just dont know please advise.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Guys don't decorate, now if it is full blown looking like a page out of Better Homes and Gardens then I would be questioning his sexuality. They only care about the essentials, food in their bellies, a roof over their head, a bed to sleep in, and a TV to watch sports on. How sightly is his house? As far as better food, does he live off ramen noodles and Hamburger Helper? He may just not know how to cook, or by whatever is quick and fast from a discounted grocery store. Or he may not be as wealthy as you think. I think being a tightwad is a good thing, have more money that way and there's always a cushion in your bank account. And with this economy everyone is hanging on their pennies. Really the only problem you have with him is these 2 things that have to with money? At least he's not a liar, has a job, or has a cheating past. Either accept him for who he is, or move on.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 September 2010):
 If there are times when you just don't want to see him, then I think you really shouldn't be all that interested in perpetuating this relationship anyway. How rich is he?
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