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writes:Here's the deal, you're a woman that has been involved with a man for an extended period of time(more than 3 yrs) and you find out that while he has been sleeping with you he has hidden the fact he has a live in GF.Would you say that this man isn't only a user but a player also?Would anyone agree that this man will try to come back and if so how would you deal with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto the anonymous female answerer:
I guess some people are better at hiding things than others but it comes out in the end.
Secondly the live in GF was already told about the fact that he was sleeping with another woman other than herself as to why he left all kinds of hateful/threatning messages.
he should get an award for best performer of 2010.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): How could you not know he had a liv-in GF? Did you know really but not want to admit it, lose him etc. Tell him to leave you alone or you'll tell his GF about the affair, because that's all it was, and get some therapy to help you recover.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Shoot first,ask questions later.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 September 2010):
Close the door in his face.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 September 2010):
 How could be involved with a guy for over three years and NOT know he had a live in girlfriend? No I wouldn't call him a player, I'd call him Houdini.
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