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writes:I am 17 and I have been talking to this 20 year old guy from Washington since April, we started talking and talked for hours and hes asked me loads of times to come to Washington, but is it even possible? I mean I live so far away, could I make it work?I just feel like I live once, and I should go over and see him, but what if it turns out to be a disaster? help Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 Did you ask this the other day? Wasn't this the guy who said he wanted you to come alone?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-a-bad-idea-to-go-over.html
I thought we Aunts made our advice pretty darn clear.
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reader, SophieF  +, writes (14 September 2010):
Why doesn't he come and visit you? If he knows how young you are he should understand that it would be unwise for you to travel to a different country to meet him. If he really cares about you he'll come to you.
However I feel I must warn you that it's soooo easy to exaggerate, forget to mention something or even outright lie over the internet and phone (if that is how you met).
If he makes excuse about not coming to see you then it may be that he hasn't been entirely honest with you about himself or his situation.
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