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writes:I read somewhere that guys don't like hyper girls, who are always excited all the time. Like they think that the girl is trying to get attention and its lame that they are so excited about little things. It has been researched that most guys don't like this. So this worries me a bit because I can get pretty hyper sometimes and super active, but its just part of my personality. I can be more mellow if i want to but then i feel like I'm bottling everything up, and it feels weird. So just wondering if its a preference for most guys for more calmer girls?I don't want scare guys away or anything Reply to this Question
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reader, Cupid Boy  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 If that's your natural personality, don't try to change it. I don't mind hyper girls, in fact there's something about their energy I really like! But then I'm a quieter sort of artsy person so I can't speak for what the "typical" guys are looking for. :P
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 What are we talking about exactly here ?
Do you use " hyper " for spunky,bubbly,extrovert, vivacious , and such ? Then , be yourself.
Or do you mean "hyper" as in loud,all over the place, a bad case of verbal dhyarrea, antsy,-can't-stand-still-a-second kind of thing ? then, please , do not be yourself- tune it down , because this kind of behaviour is very annoying ,to men and women alike.
"Hyper" comes from an ancient Greek word that literally means " too much ", " in excess ".
So, you have your answer- when something is too much- it can't be good.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 Not research, it's just some person's bad opinion. Guy's like girls who stay away from these types of articles, because they just make you anxious and worried and stop you from being yourself.
Articles like this make the author rich and make you worried and doubt yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry haven't updated, the article just said it was surveyed, so kind of researched;/
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just read it in an article http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0IBX/is_1_10/ai_106059247/
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 I wonder if the research was done by a pharmaceutical company?
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reader, xnickx +, writes (14 September 2010):
 Be yourself. Guys like girls who are confident with who and what they are.
I actually prefer bubbly, fun to be around girls. Even as friends. I hate dry personalities... i find it depressing.
As brown wolf said tho, the most important thing is that you know when to be hyper and when to be calm.
Nick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): Go crazy all u want, when u 2 are out with a group or u are with your girlfriends. Just make sure you save some calm close time for him. Also, whatever u do, do not bug or nag him to be more peppy or lively. Guys do NOT like a date to be like a mini pep rally
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 September 2010):
So who did this research? Documentation please.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 September 2010):
 Be who you are, not pretend to be something to please a guy or two.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): You should be however you feel best, and there will always be guys who want to be with you.
That having been said, every guy I know prefers calm girls. They may "deal" with a pretty hyper girl, but they prefer a clam one
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (14 September 2010):
 I like girls that are both.
Most importantly, they need to know when they should be calm, or hyper. Doing it at the wrong time can be anoying.
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