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writes:I wrote a few hours ago about my partner wanting me out of our house to live with my mum.He is now threatening to treat my daughter (from previous marriage)who lives with us -horribly.He is saying he can't stand me and needs me to go.He has promised me a lump sum but wants me to go before he gives me that.He is saying we are going to hate each other if i dont go soon and goes on and on about me moving out.I still love him, but I know my daughter comes first and he has always treated her well.I gave up my own house to buy this home with him and put most of my money from the sale of my house into this one, but he is saying its hardly anything and if i don't do what he wants he will make sure i have very little.
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reader, penta  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 I agree with eyeswideopen. Get a lawyer.
Tell your soon-to-be-ex that you'll move out as soon as you can come to a written agreement about the amount he owes you. If the $$ from your house went into his, then you own a lot more of the house than he's giving you credit for. Get as many docs together about the sale of your house, any receipts, etc.
When you talk to the lawyer, don't forget to mention that he's threatening your daughter. It's important information. The fact that he's using her (when he's always treated her nicely) as a bargaining chip is low.
You're better off without this jerk. See a lawyer, prepare to fight for what you deserve. You're in this to protect your daughter now, and anything he cheats you out of is something she won't have. Good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 May 2007):
 Man, I sure hope you can prove how much money you have put into the current house. Best get a lawyer involved. You should insist the HE moves out if he's so miserable.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (14 May 2007):
 well you both bought the house together so its as much yours as it is his. whether you love him or not he can't treat you like that your better of without him. you haven't given me a question to answer. but my advice is get out of there take your money and try and move on. don't forget to get back to me
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