I'm dating the girl at works Ex, she already has someone new so why is she so cross at me!?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I had a friend at the firm where i am working, not a best friend but a good friend. After a 3 year relationship with her boyfriend, they broke up, for some reason i dont really know. Later on me and her ex boyfriend started to chat and to see each other, and have been in a relationship for about a year and a half now. In the meantime she met someone else and and got engaged. This friend of mine has eversince been very “angry” with me? But in the meantime she is still nice with her ex but nasty to me.I cant seem to understand why, the fact that i did not break them up. After a year and a half i thought she would come around. I am always nice to her and do small little things for people and include her in those things, like taking doughnust to the whole office and giving her one aswell, so she can see that im am in a way trying to make peace. I really want to talk to her and get this off the heart. If she has found happyness again why is she still like this to me, everyone says that she is jelous and maby not really over her ex. Should i try to talk to her?? and what do i say??

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