A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what to do. I have been seeing this man who is 8 years older than I am, married and a co worker for almost a year. We have taken turns breaking off this relationship. We have both said that if we had met earlier then we would have been married. He has never done this before and I have never cheated before. I am getting divorced because I realize the affair was a result of something gone bad in the marriage. I love my job and refuse to leave. We are trying to stay JUST FRIENDS, yet everytime we are with each other in a room you can feel the chemistry. It is so hard. When he does hold me it feels like the safest place in the world. I miss him and love him very much. How do I get over this?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 May 2007):
 If you really want to get over it then you'll just have to change jobs and never be alone with the guy ever again. It is just that simple. You may not like it but too bad, you made a bad decision and all decisions have consequences.
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