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*roken14
writes:Until a few days ago I'd been with my boyfriend for 3 years, while on a break about a year ago i was extremely drunk (not that that is a good excuse) and slept with one of my closest guy friends but never had the courage to tell my boyfriend as we were both virgins when we met and neither of us had ever been with anybody else. i truly love this guy and don't know how to be without him. a couple of days ago he got told about it through friends and we have now broken up. i no what i did was wrong and he had cheated on me previously (just hooking up)and although we were not together at the time that i did this he still sees this as cheating, nothing i say will make him forgive me how can i make him love me again??? will he ever forgive me?? please help
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reader, Broken14 +, writes (17 May 2007):
Broken14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust like to say thanks to everyone who helped, we are currently trying to work something out and he is trying to forgive me so hopefully everything will be ok.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (15 May 2007):
Who decided to have a break. If it was you, then he probly thinks you wanted a break so you have it off with someone else. If if was him, then he should shut up wingeing. You were not together, and although i can see why he will feel a upset. He should realise that you were free to do what you want. If he cheated on you before, then whos he to have ago at you about it. If he wont get back together ,and wont agree to come to a conclusion, then hes obviously an idiot and you shoud meet someone else.
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reader, Stuckonlove  +, writes (14 May 2007):
I am 26 and a girl just did this to me six months ago and I just found out a few weeks ago. I was devastated that she could do this and it really hurts. You had fun for on night but if he is like me he keeps playing that over in his head. It sucks but what is done cannot be changed and he could very well be so damaged by this that it may never work. It is very hard to get through this I know I am feeling heartache everytime I open my eyes in the morning. I want to forgive her but it is really hard to do. On top of that you never told him and that hurts as well. If he heard this from you it may have worked out better.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 May 2007):
 Technically you didn't cheat on him but emotionally he feels you did. All you can do is wait and hope that he'll decide that he loves you enough to get over it. It just a matter of whether you want to wait or move on with you life. You are very young and if I were your age I certainly wouldn't want to waste time moping about. Your call.
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