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anonymous
writes:does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?. I have ginger hair and iv never had a gf. i know im not as confindent with girls as some of my friends are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I find the best way to a girls heart is to make them laugh. You don't have to be amazingly confident, alot of the time thats a turn off. Just be yourself and embrace your gingerness ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): To be honest.
Most girls i know dont like boys with ginger hair.
But i think most ginger boys are cute :)
Im sure youll get a gf soon babe!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 You've asked and asked this question and you get the same responses each time. You need to get over your hair color, Buddy. Go do some volunteer work and see some people who really have problems to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): Doesn't matter what colour hair you have to girls. They don't care (or at least shouldn't) so stop worrying about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): Nope I've gone out with guys who have had blonde/dark/red/multi coloured hair and its what is underneath the surface that counts!!!
AS long as they are kind and considerate is what is important... hair colour and looks don't always last but personality will :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): I have never ever understood why ginger / red or similar colouring hair is thought of negatively - it is a stunning colour and lets face it an awful lot more interesting than 'mouse' brown. I find men with red hair attractive - I even like freckles and pale skin - the lot!! I don't know why other than I think its because its a strong identify and kind of celtic in origin??? Who cares - be proud of your hair and colouring and be proactive. Confidence (but not arrogance), manners, kindness and humour are all very attractive traits in a man.
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reader, cupidhelper +, writes (25 September 2007):
dye your hair, if you don't get a girlfriend
you have OTHER issues.
If you do get a girlfriend, show her a picture of you with your real hair, she'll probable ask you to let is grow back natural for some GINGER spice in the bedroom.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 I just can't be in more agreement with Frank. Have you ever heard about bald men who are also womanizers?
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 It's not your hair. It is the fact you are waiting for a girl to pick you as her boyfriend, instead of you appraoching and pursing girls with confidence.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): My boyfriend has ginger hair and i find him extremely sexy and couldn't take my eyes off him when we first met! Girls aren't bothered about the colour of a guy's hair, and if they are, then they are shallow in my opinion. It doesn't matter about someone's appearance, it's what's inside that counts. If you find someone who's great looking, but is a complete pig to you, then it's no good is it? and it works the other way round. If you find someone with a great personality AND great looks, then it's a bonus.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (24 September 2007):
 its down to preference i guess and usually guys with ginger hair are embarrassed about it so they become all shy and awkward - that is not attractive. i know one guy who is very popular and very attractive - he's so funny, he's confident and outgoing and has a lot of friends and is never short of an admirer or two and he has ginger hair. and i dont care what anyone says - prince harry is hot!! hair colour isnt important but girls are attracted to confidence and humour.
brooke
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): I actually prefer guys with 'ginger' hair :)
It's cute & not as common.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Yeah, in some cases it has an impact. Like for instance, I don't like blondes. I mean I like blondes but really really blonde blonds, I don't like. I usually like brown hair, light eyes, semi fair skin.
Anyways, I know a guy with ginger hair who gets alot of girls. He is not even that cute in my opinion. But he has a nice body and a good personality. And he is not at all self conscious about his looks. He is real confident and realistic. He is a very cool guy so I can see why girls like him. And he is fun too. He has had really pretty girlfriends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Well, here in the States we love red hair!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Im sorry to say but to a degree your hair does make a difference to girls. Apparently we associate ginger hair with skinny, pale, sickly looking people. How true this is in our day and age I dont know.
Although this is the case a recent documentry proved that if you are a confident person then ginger hair matters less because charm shines through. Im sure if you dont worry about it too much and you are yourself that you will do just fine with the women.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (24 September 2007):
 every girl has a different preference, blonde, brown, ginger, multi coloured! but you have to be confident in your own skin before you can expect a girl to notice you.
the colour of your hair is just one of alot of qualities that girls look for, being kind, considerate, sensitive, funny, happy and approachable all have big parts in first attractions.
you need to find confidence in your inner self and learn to believe that nobody is better than you. i was around your age when i had my first boyfriend, there is someone out there for you, you've just got to find them.
good luck
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Well i soppose it does in ways
Imean you wouldn't want to be seen walking down the street holding hands with someonw who has blue hair would u?
It's all about reputation.
Don't worry about it too much, when a girl likes you, she wont worry about your hair, honest!
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