A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:well there is this male and we have been dating for about 12 days now and i really like him we both like the same ice cream and music. he was real sweet and we would have great convo and he was so wise and mature for a 23 yr old. I am still a virgin and one day he gave me oral sex and he tried 3 times to have sex with me but i said no he respected that and said he will wait. we would talk on the phone every day for 3 hours and i would see him every other day . he also introduced me to his whole family and called me his baby girl. then yesterday 07/29/07 he came late for our date and said he forgot and he said something that i hate for a male to call me "slim"!! so we was in the car back home i told him were is he going he said his friend b-day i asked him is it your best friend i forgot what he told me and i asked him again is it your best friend and he said "if you ask me the same motherfucking question slim" i told him did u just call me slim? he said yup i did .and i was going to ignore him till he apologize but he never called me and when i called him he didn't pick up what should i do move on? forgive him?..he really hurt my feelings!!! why did he talk to me like that? and why did he stop calling me?
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reader, Odders  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 He sounds like a bast**d. Don't even talk to him again. He is worthless. Move on there are better men and people who dont just want sex.
Life happens, enjoy the ride
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female
reader, TELLULAH +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Hi,
Sorry but the other guys are right. Sounds like he knew he wasnt going to get what he wanted, so you have been treated like cr**. Forgive him? this guy needs a kick where the sun dont shine.
Move on and find a better guyXX
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Well you've only wasted 12 days out of your life on the jerk so be grateful for that.
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male
reader, Yos  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Frankly, the guy sounds like an a$$hole who was just showing you his best side to try to get into your underwear. And that conversation in the car seems like you got a short dose of the real him.
Good riddance, don't look back and count yourself lucky (and smart) you didn't give him what he was trying to get. The best thing you can do is never speak to or see him again.
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male
reader, Hope to Help +, writes (1 October 2007):
You can not place your life on hold for someone. If you do, you leave yourself voulnerable to being used. From what you say he was being evasive about his actions. This in itself is not a promising developement. His reaction to your innocent and not unreasonable question seems quite agressive and somewhat over the top. I don't think there is any future in your relationship with this person. I feel your only option is to move on. I know it is hard but in the long run I think it is the best course of action.
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