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writes:my friend shared with me that when he attempts to have sex with his girlfriend of 15 years, he doesn't get an erection. What should I say???
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Cheating is cheating no matter how you sugar coat it. I feel very sorry for his girlfriend.
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (2 September 2008):
Serenity1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for you all's answers. For the record he's not married, and he doesn't have any children by his girlfriend. This doesn't justify why I'm sleeping with him, but the fact is I am. I have grown to have feelings for this individual and he already knows he's going to make some decisions very soon. It's only been a couple of months for us so I'm not sure if it would be a good idea for him to leave his girlfriend right now (we don't even know each other well enough). Not to mention I'm still technically married, soon to be divorced.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 September 2008):
Yeah the the married guys claim their wives are more like roomates and they sleep on the couch. It's all a crock don't buy it. If he was really into you (other than the sexually into you) he wouldn't have to worry about his penis problems with his girlfriend because she would be out of the picture.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): That sheds a whole new light on it!
When he's with her, he's probably feeling guilty, either consciously or subconsciously, about cheating on her with you, and his brain has put a block on his sexual responses. When he's with you he doesn't feel guilty about cheating on you with her because you're the 'bit on the side' and she's his 'steady'.
Either that, or he's trying to convince you that he doesn't have sex with her by coming up with a tale about being unable to get a hard-on when he's in her bed, which is probably not quite the whole truth.
Either way, he's having the cake and eating it too. I wonder which one of you he considers supplies the strawberry jam filling?
That's my take on the situation anyway!
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (2 September 2008):
Serenity1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you all for your answers. Maybe I should have given you a little background. I'm actually dating this guy, but the thing is he has never not been able to get an erection when him and I prep to have sex. So I'm not sure why he shared this with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): Maybe he has ED. He should prolly go to a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): I can't think why he would share this with you unless you're a very, and I do mean very, very good friend as he's risking the whole world knowing about it. It could be that he's hoping you'll offer him some erection thereapy but without more background it's difficult to say.
If you're not willing to offer the said therapy suggest he sees his doctor for a check-up to make sure there's nothing physically wrong with him that might be causing the problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): don't make fun of him.give him some suggestions,like going
on the internet to find some solutions or taking some extenze pills or something like that.
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