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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My live in boyfriend told me that he thought that he could do better than me one night when he was drinking. The next day he said he didnt mean it and that he was jealous because so many people came up to me when we were out the night before to say hi. Last month he said he was bored and the month before that i was a convenience. What should I think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): Thank you for answering. I have expressed my concerns with him and so far all is well. I will not put up with it again.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 I have got to say that your live in boyfriend is not excatly full of compliments is he. I think the things that he has said, like to last month like he is bored, and that you were a convienience is out of order. For him to say he was jealous because people kept coming up and chatting to you is immature. i mean i assume he is in the same sort of age bracket that you specify of 41-50. If you really like him talk to him and tell him to stop talking to you in this way, if he doesen't then you may want to consider whether this is the guy for you.
All the best x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Sounds like your boyfriend is a mean drunk who says hurtful things or maybe he's just mean and is using the alcohol as an excuse. Ask him to quit it and if he persists then either you can dump the big mouth or you can decide to listen to the crap. I for one wouldn't put up with it.
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reader, Hattie127 +, writes (18 August 2008):
It looks as though this guy is trying to make you feel insecure about yourself, which is unacceptable; whether he means it or not - he still says these things.I think you should sit him down and talk to him and tell him how you're feeling and ask him whether he does want a future with you because he's not acting the right way.The chances are that he is extremely jealous and trying to make you feel guilty, which is unfair.Whatever happens, don't stand for him be-littling you as you don't deserve that!
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