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writes:last week i ran into a friend/co worker, which have not seen in years, since she works wirth my ex-gf, of 4 years ago. we exchange info about our life, etc. i told her that i was happy in my current relationship of alnmost 4 years, to which she just answer that my ex has not gotten married. i told her that i was not interested in her life,she dumped me in a rather naughty way. a week later i run into her again and this time she started to tell me that my ex was very unhappy with her current bf, i told her again that i was not interested in her life details. anyway, 2 days later i run into a friend who do knows my ex-gf, and she starts to tell me the same thing about her. that she is very unhappy with her situation and that it has no solution. i told her that it did not make me sad, since it is good that she gets a little taste of her own medicine. i do not know why these women are so motivated to pass this info to me , after i have made clear to them my current staus and that i not interested on my ex. it makes me wonder, since my ex at least used to be very private about her personal private affairs, and it seems that now everyone knows her affairs. it also makes me wonder what if any she was telling them when she was getting ready to dump me. i do not know if she is behind this, trying to get this info availabe to me, expecting some kind of reaction from me. i do run into my ex since we live very close, but we do not exchange any greetings or anything, actually she ignores me as if we have never met, i do the same. i do not know what to make out of this , if anything.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 I would say that your ex has probably told her friends that she regrets splitting with you. Thats why they are informing you of her circumstances. Whatever you do, dont rise to the bait. You are happy and its all in the past.
It didnt work out for you, dont worry its her loss.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 August 2008):
 If you show no interest when they talk about your ex they will eventually wise up. Since you don't give a rat's ass about her anymore, I really don't see this as a big problem. Water off a duck's back, Buddy. Enjoy your current relationship and good luck.
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