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male
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anonymous
writes: Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks! Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, stax +, writes (4 February 2010):
I once filled my apartment with red balloons and in each one was a reason why i loved her. she popped each one and read them one at a time. was a hit!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): 1. compliments!2. flowers (flowers with a sentimental meaning)3. a true gesture is when a man remembers something his lady said- the smallest thing-and then goes out and makes her wish come true.gosh!god blessfriend x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): hold her face when you kiss her and slide your hands into her hair
instead of an ordianry text, record your message as a voice tag and send it as a mms just to say hello is enough(made me smile all day when sum1 did it for me i couldnt stop playing it)
run her a bath with candle light and stay to chat to her while she soaks, very relaxing very intimate and certainly shows she has your full attention, who knows you may be invited to get in with her, cant beat it.
can i have 4 please
dance in the kitchen / lounge etc to a slow tune that comes on the tv radio,
wish my fella had thought to ask the question you just asked hope it helps
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female
reader, natasia +, writes (27 August 2008):
- gently and lovingly stroking me all over, then kissing my hands and forehead and holding me very tight and sleeping like that all night
- me waking up in the night to find him secretly kissing me, eg, on my hair
- coming into my room and finding something from him either on my pillow or somewhere i regularly go (eg, dressing table) - something like a note saying he loves me, or a flower, or something like that. maybe a classic cliche but it works for me.
and just always acting like he's a bit sad to leave me, and pretty happy to see my face when he comes back again.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 August 2008):
His remembering to put the toilet seat down.
His wiping off said toilet seat if he gets a little distracted.
And foot massages.
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female
reader, babewithbrains +, writes (27 August 2008):
Hehe, I'm only 12 but I am a right romantic.
Well, every girl's different but i like it when you hold my hand and smile, anywhere, like when your walking home together etc. just random.
Picnics are fun, especially when there isn't anyone around, and you can go on the swings and pretend you are kids again.
Oh, and i like nice flowers from local florists - not from tesco own brand and others. Support local shops - they just feel nicer.
Jelly
xxx
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female
reader, ItsEmma +, writes (27 August 2008):
Well, for me, personally, it's:
~Winking. Not in the jocky way, but saying something slightly sarcastic and then winking. Ha ha. Is that weird?
~Randomly holding my hand. It's just so sweet.
~Flowers. They're always nice, but I agree, don't get them from the supermarket! (:
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female
reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (27 August 2008):
The one thing that turns me on, romanticlly, has to be originality in romance. A dozen roses with a card in each one explaining why you love her. A romantic dinner in a place other than a restraunt that has some meaning to the relationship. An odd gift that has something to do with an inside joke only my lover and I share. Make her remind herself of you when you are not around, and be original;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): well aphexinfinite has got it almost perfect but i wouldnt say holland champagne strawberrys and chocolate candles rose petals bubbble baths (together) or mabey make a fire and roast marshmallows mmm PERFECT (shell love you 4 that)
LUV YA HUN
**GOOD**LOOK**
DANIELLE XXXXXXXOXOXOXOXXXXXXXX
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female
reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (27 August 2008):
*cooking a suprise meal with a posh scrummy pudding...(especially if the man cant cook..its very sweet)
*washing or brushing my hair...is that weird?
*Over-doing the compliments and touching my face. Ooh love having my face touched.
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female
reader, happy24birthday +, writes (27 August 2008):
Star gazing with the guy not gazing at anything but me; a neck rub just to make me feel better; flowers for no reason
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female
reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (27 August 2008):
champagne, rug, strawberrys and watching the night sky looking at the stars cuddling..candles bath bubbles and rose petals of course champagne heheh (sorry love champagne)..a weekend whisked away to holland or somewhere.. thats my three hope it helps aphex xx
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reader, Fairy Godmother +, writes (27 August 2008):
1. Flowers - needn't be expensive, just beautiful (and not in cellophane from a supermarket!).
2. An evening out that you have arranged and obviously put some thought into (having picked up on something she has said to you e.g. there is a new restaurant she would like to try).
3. A picnic - just a lovely afternoon somewhere peaceful, bringing along a picnic basket you have packed full of good food and wine, nice glasses and real napkins.
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