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writes:i have been with my bf for 4 years we constantly fight because i think that he is very close with his sister-inlaw(his brothers wife)when i tell him not to be so close he say im jealous and starts fighting with me what shuld i do.....?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): What do you mean by "too close" to his sister-in-law? By that, do you mean they are always hanging out with each other, or he spends time with her instead of with you? Please be more specific about what you mean by "too close."
Or is it that you suspect they are actually having sex with each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): Dear Poster
Unless he has given you any reason not to trust him or unless you have very vlaid reason to suspect that something is going on between them; I suggest you should have a look at yourself; maybe you have insecurities that you need to deal with; jealousy can destroy relationships; do some introspection and see if you do not maybe over react due to your own fears, insecurities or issues. If that is the case, work on it and discuss your fears and feelings with your boyfriend.I know this can be difficult, but I do believe:
COMMUNICATION
is very important in a relationship; I do suggest you both have a good talk about TRUST and all the issues. With good honest communication you will also learn to understand each others feelings better and have more respect for the partners feelings.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 August 2008):
 Why would you be jealous of his sister-in-law? She is married. Unless something totally inappropriate is going on, you shouldn't be feeling jealous towards her. I'd try to back off on the whole situation if I were you. Family is family.
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