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writes:Hi,I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months. Everything is good but its just lately I have been getting paranoid about jokes that she says when we are with friends. Like my friend gets does something stupid and we shove it in his face and he jokes "F*** me" And my girlfriend says "no, not while my boyfriends here". I know its a joke and it is. I know her well enough that I know its a joke but its the thought. Shes a little mad at me for saying that they were being mean to me. It was a long day for me the one day I don't get bored and I was really relaxed and tired. We where playing board games and I get bored of them fast. Its not that I don't like them when I am fully awake but I get bored when I am tired and I can't count. My friend playing the game said "f*** you" and yet again she says Not while hes here... I just don't know how to except that or how to play along with it. Its really wrecking things for me and I want to fix that. The thought bugs me and I don't know away around it. I can't play the same game either...How do I except it or play along with it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wasteaway +, writes (15 August 2008):
Wasteaway is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think I can just play along with it, Shes not that kind of person to follow through.Its really just a joke and a phase.
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reader, junebug  +, writes (15 August 2008):
i agree with eyes wideopen say it to her and see if she likes it.yea its prob all fun and games but if it hurt or bothers u then she should stop or if she dont im sure u can find someone that will treat u good and be respectful.good luck xoxojunebugxoxo
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reader, Kindness  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 well i dont think your girlfriend knows that this phrase gets on your nerves. but it would get on mine aswell so your not the only one. next time give here a sharp remark back like what 'eyeswideopen' said. just see how she reacts. hope this helped. X
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 August 2008):
 Next time she says that, say "Well I can always leave the room." and see how she reacts.
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