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writes:I'm married with a young child but recently i've noticed i have feelings 4 someone else who is also in a relationship he says he feels the same should we just ignore this feelings Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 Yep, you should just ignore those feelings, but then you already know that don't you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): Stuff and bother, MammaMia, you've done it again, you've brought tears to my eyes with your words... Oh so true, so very, very true....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): Somebody once said: "Love is constant, it is we who are fickle. Love does guarantee, people betray. Love can always be trusted, people cannot".
Think carefully, don't act on the impulse of an emotion. It is so easy to end a relationship or get a divorce, instead of trying to work at it. It seems easier to just move on and try our luck again, but in the process you might be hurtng yourself and those around you. Then in no time you might find that the new relationship is not as perfect as it seemed. I believe that if we truly seeking longlasting love, with commitment, the satisfaction and the joy, there is only one way to achieve it. We need to be prepared to make changes. Often we need to rediscover our partners and learn to communicate on a deeper level. Sometimes I think, in life we must learn to appreciate and respect our partners and our commitment to love and honour each other. Don't think short term, think long term.
As Josephine Hart said: "We do have choice, but not without some agaony".
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): What's wrong with your marriage, you've got a young baby, your still young, what's going wrong, why don't you love your husband anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): There's an ongoing link about women who have decided to take this plunge, and many of them are very unhappy. The answer is never start a relationship with someone unless you and the guy are single and free to love. It can get very messy when there are other people involved who could get badly hurt. Just walk away and save yourself a lot of hurt.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-love-w-a-married-man-how-do-i-cope-w-break-up.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-paramour-told-my-husband-that-he-used.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): Hi please do not go there, read all the other post on the cheating part of this and see the hurt that is caused all round by having affairs.save your self a lot of time and energy and get on with life as best as you can.Men will say one thing and once thay have got whay they wanted your left feeling used and your child and husbands life are ruined. PLEASE read other peoples postings about being used and how these things all start in the same way. Take care before its to late.
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