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writes: My best friend moved away and broke up with her boyfriend because of the distance. A little while after she had left, her ex and I started going out. One day after school we were making out in the hall and I felt a tap on my shoulder at first I just ignore it. Then I realize it was my friend (who moved away but is back now). She was devastated and ran off crying. She won't to talk to me or her boyfriend. What's the big deal they broke up? Will she get over it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): I'm afraid you've put yourself in a very akward spot so, darlin' u have 2 choices...First choice, dump him and say sorry to her and hav a speech ready or you can continue 2 be his gf and jus not care but your relationship with your friend your choice. I would try the first choice and if it don't work then jus do the second.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 December 2008):
Of course she'll get over it, at your age probably very quickly. I hope she also finds someone who can truly be her best friend as well, cause you sure aren't one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): What's the big deal they broke up? (Ms anonymous)
Your not a very sensitive person are you? Why did you decide to go out with her ex-boyfriend, couldn't you have find somebody else at school? Did you fancy him when them two were together?
These are the questions she'll be asking herself and more. Remember she cared about him, and he cared about her, they only broke up because she had to leave. Somehow, I really don't think she'll get over it at all. I know I wouldn't, I couldn't do something like that and call myself a friend.
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