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He wanted to cum in my eye!!!

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Question - (7 December 2008) 16 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was having sex with a guy I've been seeing for a while the other night, when he said he wanted to do something. He didn't want to say what but I made him tell me and he said he wanted to come in my eye! I thought it was a joke at first so I laughed and then realised he was serious.

I said no but was just wondering is this a normal request and if so what pleasure could a guy get from this?? as I know I wouldn't have enjoyed it! x

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A male reader, Newrocker United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2013):

I dont know what the big hoo-haa is here at all. Yes its a rather strange request but as for the 'It will hurt' and 'You will get an infection' comments, i think people need to calm down aha. I have accidentally hit myself in the eye a few times over the years when masturbating and as much as its grim wiping it out, it doesnt hurt in the slightest and caused me no long term discomfort. My girlfriend even got hit by a stray shot when she was masturbating me, literally three days ago and once she chuckled about how misfortunate it was she carried on with her day perfectly fine. Its fun to do something new for your partner that they will enjoy and as far as sex acts go, this is rather mild. :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

Darl i acciedenltl got it in the eye my eye swelled up and was red and oozey i thought it would be like that forever it felt horrible my BF had a good giggle though :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008):

my husband asks things like that dont let him because once you do he will think he can just take control of you and do what ever he wants i know from experiance i am being honest with you i am having big problems now because i have let my husband do what ever and done what ever for him just tell him he wants his head looking at

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntEyes!!!!! You have to warn people before you zing off one-liners like that. Having to change one's trousers right after one puts them on is simply not okay.

Tell your boyfriend, or is it just a guy friend, that some things have to stay in the fantasy realm. This is one of them. I don't see why you should expose your eyes to irritation or possible injury so that he gets an extra spasm or two.

I don't think that it is a common request at all; as for what pleasure he could get out of it, maybe he gets a buzz out of inflicting a little pain?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'd have to change my name on this one.

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A male reader, Austinalive United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

Not really a normal request but a porn request, i'd think he's losing respect for you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

What a freak! lol.

In all seriousness that's just weird, and from a medical/health perspective I would strongly discourage you from trying it. Not to mention that it's totally disrespectful. Tell him you'll let him do it if he licks it all off afterwards because that would turn YOU on and wait for the reaction. Should settle an argument anyway.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

That is an odd request. Semen can irritate your eyes, so I would avoid that if possible. If he's looking for something out of the ordinary, maybe he will compromise and do it somewhere else. From my experience, guys are happy to cum anywhere you want them to!

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A male reader, Mr-M United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2008):

Mr-M agony auntI don't really see why he would ask you to do this, maybe its a secret fantasy of his, but to be honest, i would avoid doing it, as it is a huge risk and can lead to visual impairment/lazy eye.

Talk to him about it and find out why he wants to do it so much, and tell him that he'll have to settle for somewhere else.

Hope this helps

M

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

it hurts, bad. dont let him do that, as someone else said, the face is one thing but the eye is kindof ridiculous, your eye will be red for hours, i promise lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

first of all what kind of man would ask you a ? like that you tell him hell no and you leave him alone that is just down right nasty

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

I suggest you avoid him ejaculating in your eye. It is just far to much of a health risk. No matter what he is saying it is your eyes and your health. Eyes are very sensitive and very exposed to infections.

Why take the risk to satisfy his fantasy for a minute?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

Umm...guy some guys just have weird fetishes. My ex had a fetish about wanting to cum on my face because he did so on a accident to a ex of his and the heffa started rubbing it in and that severly turned him on so now he likes cumming on faces. Whatever floats peoples boat I guess. But "in" your eye? he should suggest somewhere else or if its just a infatuation with the eye thing at least close your eye and he can cum on your eyelid? lol i dunno. Good luck with that =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

This is a weird one. I definately wouldnt recommend what your boyfriend was thinking and its more than a little strange choosing your eye as the centre of his attention. Tell him to rub his cum in HIS eye first and then see if he still wants to put you through the same!

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A female reader, n00dl35 United States +, writes (7 December 2008):

n00dl35 agony auntThat does not sound too pleasant. Make sure he doesn't have any diseases if you do decide to let him because you can get diseases in your eye and you really don't want that. If you don't want him to do this then tell him it's a little too much. take care. xx

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A male reader, SinVA United States +, writes (7 December 2008):

What the hell?

Look, cumming on a girls face is one thing, but solely aiming for your eye is a little disturbing. So he wants to see you blinded for a while?

I hope he was joking, just let him know he should stop complaining, cum somewhere else, and be happy that he is getting some.

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