A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello. I just turned 21 and am stuck between two guys. The first one (A) and i were going out for 3 years. He took me for granted, was mean to me, didnt have a job, etc. We broke up and the day we broke up i found the second guy (B). He was everything i wanted, sooo nice to me, had a good job, treated me with respect etc ( wasnt as attractive as 'A' but). We've been dating for 3 months now but i cannot seem to get (A) out of my head. I still talk to him on the phone and sometimes see each other . He will not give up on us and continually tells me how much he loves me. I know that i love guy(A), and he has changed but i dont know how much and if it would be a mistake to take him back, ruin things with (B) who has been nothing but perfect to me, and who ive started 2 like. What do i do ? ive been going back and forth in my head for a month and im at the breaking point! HELP!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 December 2008):
 New guy!!!
A is old news, ditch him and try out something new and exciting. You're too young to have to go through all that drama and madness. A had his chance, he says he'll change, but will he really?? Empower yourself and stick with what you deserve - a new possibility with a sweet guy.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (8 December 2008):
 You need to dump guy A As soon as possible.
I know you love him and you think he will change..but the truth is if you get back with him...the same problems will arise. People don't change that easily and esp at 18-21. Give guy B a chance.
You deserve to be treated right and with respect.
Don't go back to A...it'll be DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA...unless that is what you want to add excitement in your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): Does your new guy know about this? I've just emailed my GF because she is in the same situation and ended it with her, which was the hardest things i've ever had to do.
He is your ex for a reason, and if your new guy is so perfect, why go back?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Stay with the new guy, he sounds like winner. Your ex is an ex for a good reason, I doubt if he's changed all that much.
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