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writes:My wife did not come home one night. She lied about where she was, but finally i found out that she was with someother guy all night long (well until 5 a.m.). She wants to make-up and she tells me they did not do anything except kiss. Should I believe her or is she lying. Reply to this Question
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reader, 48years  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 I'm sorry for the pain, anger and fear you're feeling.... You'll never get the answer that would truly satisfy you, so ask her if she plans to make this a habit. Ask her what she expects you to do.If you forgive, you must forget, but first:1.Ask her to try to imagine how she'd feel if you did the same.2.Tell her that the only way you'll ever be able to trust her again is if she lets you know where she is and with whom at all times. 3.She must answer the phone whenever you call.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Did she say WHY she felt the need to do this to you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): Out until 5 in the morning and all they did was kiss? Although this is certainly possible, it wouldn't pass the smell test with me. The real question is whether or not you are willing to move forward with the relationship if she did indeed cheat on you. I think you have to consider the possibility that she may have. Only you know whether or not the marriage is worth salvaging or whether or not she can be believed with any amount of certainty.
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