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writes:What would you do?I have just moved in with my boyfriend of 3 years - with a lease of one year. I had doubts even before we moved in, but went ahead becuase i wanted to give it a go. He has been lovely to me, but i have come to admit to myself that i really am not in love with him. I have strong feelings for another man, and feel that i have just got myself into a situation here. I dont know where to start in getting myself out of it. He is going to be heartbroken, and we both totally love the place we have moved in to. It would be so much easier if i stayed with him in this amazing house and didnt hurt anyones feelings.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 I guess you have no choice but to tell your housemate the truth. Let him decide what he wants to do. Since it is a house it most likely has at least two bedrooms so until you can help him find another housemate you could stay in the other room. If he wants you to leave immediately so be it. But before you act on your feelings for the other guy, this all has to be straightened out.
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