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How do I get over this obsession?

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Question - (9 December 2008) 14 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well, i was reading another question like this and i noticed another answerer has the same problem as me, although probably not quite as bad.

well anyways, i am OBSESSED with Elwood Blues.

i think hes just, well.. perfect! and i cant get over it. i spend all my time wishing i knew someone just like him. but no one shares those interests. i love the blues brothers music and everything.

aagh what do i do about this???

help please..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

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haha thats funny, cuz tho im a girl, i always wear black skinny ties, with anything that it wouldnt look weird with, and i have the same glasses as the blues brothers :P nbut mine are pink.

oh and the hats. oh goodness

id wear them every where if i could :P

i know im going to look back on this when im older, and laugh my butt off at how silly i was. :P

life is amazing that way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

If you like Richie, then you definitely have taste and their is hope for you. To tell the truth anyone who ever sees the blues brothers must become an Ackroyd fan. Me young cousins were the same, they would go to sleep in their glasses and suits if they could... By the way, I am now out of mourning and sadness, flies to short to waste on things you cannot have.. That's the thing about obsession, it's deeply felt, but it only last for a short little while... Your lucky, I had friends that were obsessed with Boy George (in the old days) and they sure looked weird every time they walked down the street in their funky multi-colored dreadlocks and very weird clothes....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

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lol! i love richard gere in Chicago the Musical :P

in fact im using the song Razzle Dazzle to audition with =)

he amazes me :P i like amos too.

hrm. anyways...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

No thank you babes.. liking somebody famous because of their good qualities isn't stupid, as long as it doesn't take over real life... As you realise I'm very sensitive about me Paulie, and the thanks go to you for your post, for making me realise that he is no longer here and allowing me to grieve..

Next on the list.. Richard Gere, he's still young and handsome, your guy will die before my Richie dose.. lol..Thanks a lot babes for your post, you helped me to keep my promise.. and now my picture has changed...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

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lol diovanlestat xD

that just made me crazy :P i loved it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

Cowgirl has been put to bed... Paul Newman is DEAD.. I'm grieving.. You don't know about obsession, your not old enough...

I WANT ME PAULIE BACK... BRING BACK ME PAULIE... OK, yes he is dead, and them people that kept telling me, weren't trying to hurt me, and they weren't telling me lies.... PAULIE, OH, PAULIE..

Watch and learn honeypie.. I'm grieving.. this is true obsession.. He had a beautiful heart, beautiful eyes, a beautiful smile, and I was trying to look at his penis, but then he went dead... Paulie is smiling forever.......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

Here lies Paul Newman... forgotten and alone.. because his blue eyes turned grey.. that's what he was gonna put on his tombstone.. (Diovanlestat turns into a mess of tears and crying)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

And he liked to laugh... Paulie loved jokes, he was always smiling.. he's not smiling now... (sigh... sniff, sniff)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

And Paulie joined up in for the 2nd world war, but them blue eyes are beautiful but they are also colourblind, so he couldn't fight, but he wanted to, cause they rejected him, and when he made that bitch wife (Joanne is ugly) stay at home to look after the kids, then he was a good husband and he made her a film for herself and he directed and financed it, and I didn't tell you that everyone loves him, but you know that already, and then when he got in sports cars and he kept speeding around and I wanted to tell him to stop, but I didn't have his address and Joanne was so worried, but she's not a good wife, cause she should have made him stop because he can die in those things.. and then he got the cancer and he stopped treatment cause he wanted to die at home and I wanted to kill her, cause she should have made him except treatment and kept him alive and OK so he was 83, but he was still the sexiest man alive with blue eyes even though he was a little crumbly....

I miss Paulie.... He's NOT COMING BACK, your lucky Dan Ackroyd is still alive... (Diovanlestat sheds tears for a great man, a wonderful actor and a very specially human)

Oh yes you can fall out of love, I like John Wayne the best until I found out that he liked guns....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008):

Paulie is dead, he's dead... oh stuff.. now I've admitted it... I can't pretend no more.. that hurts..

Sometimes it ain't a phase and you can admire them and like them for the whole of your life. But it doesn't really interfere much with real life. Except you got to see all their movies, you get angry when they start going bald and getting old. Then they never divorce their wives and come looking for you.. I mean I was right here, he could have called... I was waiting.. and then they die and leave you heartbroken, and you have to pretend you haven't heard the news.. and everyone keeps contacting you and saying their sorry, and then their on every f***king page, and you can't buy a magazine or a newspaper and then Christmas is coming up and their gonna show all his films and he'll have blue eyes and he'll be smiling for you and you know he won't smile again and he'll never know that you loved him since you was seven and he was so cute even though he had skinny legs and well he was a bit skinny but that didn't matter and then you go on wikipedia and you read everything you can about him and then he just turns out to be the nicest person in the world and he makes the best popcorn and he gives it all to charity and he helps sick kids to smile.. did I tell you that he's first wife had to give him a divorce cause he was so unhappy, cause he had blue eyes and when he's eyes get sad then you got to cry and then I spent all this time looking for funeral clothes, but that got too heavy so I'm trying to pretend that he's still alive and he's not, but I'm gonna pretend until Christmas when they'll show all his films...

Sorry, what was your question again, I got lost for a little while... Paulie and me are doing just fine....

PS: Did I tell you he was also involved with the civil rights movement and stood right next to Martin Luther King... Stuff who you like, Paul Newman is the best...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008):

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i know hes old NOW.

haha its hopefully just some kind of phase _

i liked him alot when he was younger. like in their movie, i thought he was HOT.

im not too sure why.

but thanks :)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 December 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntOkay, he's aged but he still is pretty funny, most of the time. Is that better Cupid's Own Cowgirl?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008):

Eyes, have a little sympathy..... Paul Newman ain't looking so good, now that he's dead, but I still love him, warts and skeleton and all...

You can love somebody, you can't have them, move on with your life and do something else. I want to be the queen and I can't do that, so I do only things I can do. Obsession is insane. Keep it real honeypie, if it gets really bad, join a fan club and try to make some money out of this thing that you like. Turn negatives into positives always.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 December 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntHave you see Dan Akroyd lately? Man has he aged, that should help you get over your obsession!

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