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writes:I am 40, have been divorced for 18 months now. During this time, I have managed to finish my MSc, get a good job, and get my household in order. I feel I have done pretty well for myself and I am fairly happy with my life at the moment. I have a good circle of friends and family who have been very supportive. However, I can't seem to find a decent guy to put the icing on the cake, so to speak. I don't feel like I NEED a guy for anything but it would be nice. I am told I am young looking, pretty and have a great personality. I go out fairly often socialising and have been on a few dates, but seem to meet guys who are either too young, after one thing only or are already married/in a relationship. It gets me down a bit, usually when I am on my own in the house (that is, when I am reflecting on my life). I am not even sure what I am asking here but has anybody had similar experience? or can anyone give a good suggestion on where I might be going wrong? Thank you.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 Well frankly, maybe you are just content enough to be single. Look at most of the women here who have a relationship but shouldn't be, they NEED the man to complete them. You don't. If you did you would just go for the young guy, after one thing only who is married. But you don't because you are not that desperate.
Finding someone if you are desperate ain't easy, Mr/Mrs Wrong is on every street corner, the right one is a LOT harder to find but in my opinion worth waiting for. Enjoy your single life and someday you might meet somebody. Even if you do not, it is better then being miserable with the wrong person.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 I don't think you are doing any wrong maybe just a little impatient that's all. You are out there and visible. It will happen all in good time. Keep us posted.
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