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Should I have sex at 14?

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Question - (17 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 14 and I want sex and i dont know what to do. I already masterbate and its not good enough. what do i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

Okay, everyone should be excited to have sex.....someday in your case. There is more to sex than just humping away merrily. There are feelings involved, things to consider. Right now your hormones are getting the better of you. If you have sex at such a young age, what would you have to look forward to when you are little older and understand your body better?

Here is some information for you:

http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/sexabstinence/bb/blfirsttimelist.htm

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2009):

NO NO NO NO NO NO NONO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!

does that answer your question?!?

you are way too young to be having sex. you are still a child! stop trying to grow up so fast and just enjoy being a kid. sure your hormones are racing around, but you are no way mature enough to beable to cope with the consquences, such as STD's and getting a girl pregnant. not to mention the emotional side.

ask yourself this...are you ready to become a father? no didn't think so. you should not have sex unless you can face up to the consquences it can bring.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

no you are too young go out buy playstation,play soccer ,watch tv, that IS legal .go out have fun

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

whats the rush to having sex?

when i was 14 i barely knew what it was, and im still a teenager.

and in any case, dont tell a girl that, cos you know, its likely to reduce your chances. try finding yourself a gf who you feel relaxed and comfortable with. experiment with other things before sex, you ever had a bj? theres other things you can do, but when the moment comes, it will feel so much better than a quick fumble.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (17 February 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntGo play some football with your pals and take lots of cold showers.

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