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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i need a couple of suggestions and please don't judge me or tell me not to do this..here's the situation. i started talking to this young man about six months ago. and right off the bat fell for him. i've always considered myself mature and sure of handling any situation that comes my way including boys. but im guessing because im sixteen and he's nineteen hes at more of an advantage and i was played. big time. my family didn't approve of him and at a couple months back i wondered why. now i know it's that he doesn't want a relationship. he just wanted to play games with me. and yes i was very heartbroken at first, i lost my virginity to him. but now, although i still talk to him i want and feel the need to play him right back. i know he's talking to another girl but im cool and i even want to play around with him. i want to tease him (which i already am) and i want to be the strong girl i should've been at the very beginning. now he's asking for a relationship and i say no..but i also need a couple of suggestions as to how i should go at it; please help.
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reader, Esther01  +, writes (9 April 2009):
Hey..sometimes reltionships are complicted arent they?
yeah i know how you are feeling, i have been there myself. When all you want to do is get their attention and you think about them all the time! but please listen to me and i really am not judging you in any way, more so him, he is a user and in the end when you do get wht you want its nothing to do with liking the person anymore its the fact that he hurt you and made you feel not good enough. you feel betrayed and this is why you think you like him. i know it is so hard but if i can give you one bit of advise it would be to forget about him. you dont need him and in my opinion he doesn't deserve you. try to be strong and walk away from this and you never know that could be your revenge for the hurt he has caused you because the tables have turned and you are the one that doesnt need him!
I hope this helps and if u ever want to talk you can write to me any time :)
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Sorry sweetie, my days of playing games are long behind me, I'll leave this to the younger aunts and uncles.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhonestly, i do. i just need to know how to really make him want it also. because he says he does but i want him to fall for me the way i did before..hope u understand what im trying to say
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 April 2009):
Are you saying you DON'T or you DO want a relationship with him? You want suggestions on how to tell him "no"?
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