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writes:hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc. Reply to this Question
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Maybe its me, but I cant see what it was that Eyes said that upset you so much. I would believe that she meant she thought this was a hoax, which I also thought myself.
You are very aggresive in your reply's, but lets face it you are 14 and asked opinions after telling us that you have done everything under the sun to do with sex. There are obviously a few stupid girls that have done the same (I am refering to the BDSM and ANAL)
I believe that one day you will regret this, and I am sure many others would agree.
But it is your life, and if you want all the problems that go with this sort of sex, then its up to you.
But if you dont want to get negative responses darling keep it all to yourself.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (18 April 2009):
 I think that was a harsh answer from Eyes, but everyone is going to bring their diverse opinions to this sight.
I don't think that the age (as in a number) is important, the question is: are you ready for the consequences? What sex education have you received? What precautions are you taking?
I'm not trying to be mean, but at 14 you aren't ready for sex. There's no going into the past and undoing what you've done, sad to say, but you can stop and have a fresh slate from here on out. That's what you need to do, you shouldn't be having sex!! There's a time and a place for it... but sex is not a video game, there are very real consequences, some of them severe. I'm not saying this becuase I want to hurt you, maybe what I've said is harsh but it's for your own good!
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reader, kissxmexagainx  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 sweetheart, eyeswideopen is just trying to help you. yes she tends to be a bit harsh but that's really what some people need. She hasn't really said anything that you should take offense to or be hurt by. What you are doing is very dangerous and everyone is just concerned. If you look at my original answer to this question, you'll see that I was very young when I had all my firsts. I am sorry about it now though.And I'm sure when you grow up you will regret this as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso name calling to the aunts, but they can make snide comments to people who are just aking a question or actaully need help! seems fair :S ???
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Eyeswideopen is a harsh Aunt, and sometimes even out does me in my harshness, but her advice is fair, honest and too the point, and bitching about her really isn't making you look like a mature adult.
Making a "snide comments on some peoples" posts is normally due to one of two things:
1, They are being an Idiot
2, Any other form of education just isn't working.
If you have a problem with an aunt vote to remove the unhelpful question and give them a low rating, we don't mind feed back but please don't do the name calling!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneyeswideopen does always seem to make snide comments on some peoples questions. i'm not frustrated. and i'm not bragging, why would i brag, its my choice as to what i do. i just wondered what age people lost theirs at etc. is that such a crime?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Whoa! No need to take out your frustrations on Eyeswideopen-btw, your nice dinner recipe earlier cracked me up!Eyes makes a good point about burnout- what are you racing towards? Point is; it isn't a race... or a competition for that matter. I kinda agree with the first female anon poster who suggested this seems to be more about bragging than anything you actually want help with? Yes, ppl do more/ less at different ages- what are you hoping to learn?And why are you insulting people?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Just YOUR questions, honey. You are really going to be sad you squandered your youth pretending to be an adult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Woah, everuone seems to have lost there virginity really young. I'm 17 and have no experience what so ever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): So... why were you "just wondering" about this? Are you bragging because you think you are some kind of enlightened early bloomer?You are free to do what you want, even make mistakes, but you should be careful about thinking that doing lots of sexual stuff when you're still a child makes you really advanced etc. If anything it'll get you a sorry reputation and/or a disease and/or child.I don't think there is anyone on this board who will agree that the average 14 year old brain is ready to cope with threesomes and spanking etc. You haven't proved anything by running up a score of all the naughty things you've ticked off the list. You've only proved how naive you are, and possibly, your boyfriend's irresponsibility.I've had friends like you. By the time they are in their early 20's, they are used up, jaded, tired and old already and nothing is special to them. They fancy themselves to be sexual athletes or something, but the older they get, the more they realize the stupidity of their decisions.Just keep safe!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneyeswideopen, your a bit of a dick tbqh. i've noticed that with most of your responses to questions.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2009):
Whoa...is that smoke I smell? I hope it's not a burnout.
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reader, kissxmexagainx +, writes (14 April 2009):
I gave my first handjob && blow job at 12.
I had sex at 13.
I first received oral at 15
I did anal at 18.
I was a victim of sexual abuse && for most of my life sex was all I knew. I regret almost everything I've done, especially when I was so young. My first real relationship was when I was 15, but he turned out to be an abuser as well. at 17 I started seeing my boyfriend && I wish I waited for him because I don't think I was all that ready until then.
I know sex is great && fun, but you should definitely be careful.
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (14 April 2009):
 i was 14 when i lost my virginity & have regretted it ever since, but thats just me!
i used to think that if i had sex with a boy they would love me & respect me. All i got out of it was the name "slag".
i continued to sleep with boys untill i was 16 & depressed.
it wasnt all it was cracked up too be.
on a happier note, now that im with a long term partner who i trust & love, sex is so much more enjoyable.
if your happy having sex at your age then go for it, no matter what anybody says too you it wont stop you. Just make sure your safe.
as for anal, bdsm & threesomes ... I have no experience at all & have no desire to have. Whatever floats your boat i suppose!
just makesure your protected against pregnancy & std's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): I was 13 when i did oral and things like that.
14 when i had sex and anal.
I don't regret it though and people will think i am too young but i felt ready and did it with my boyfriend who i know loves me and i trust him.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (14 April 2009):
I really hope this is our resident faker, because if not you have got some serious issues! At 14 you should be worrying about if a boy fancies you not having threesomes and BDSM sessions!
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 April 2009):
If you really have done all of this already, I am shocked. What are girls going to be like in another 20 years??
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reader, Jmo +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Well, I was 13 when I lost my virginity. While it was of my own volition, it was kind of messed up . It wasn't until I was 16 until I actually had sex with someone I cared for deeply, but let me tell you there is a huge difference between having sex with someone you love (knowing the good but more importantly the bad) and someone you just kinda' like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni didn't answer my own question. i wondered what age people have done anything sexual
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 April 2009):
Erm!! this girl is 14 for god's sake. Or hoax....
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reader, Jmo +, writes (14 April 2009):
In response to your response (which I did not see until too late) anonymous, I think you've answered your own question.
-Jmo
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Honey I was 16 before I started doing anything and I married the man that did those things with. You should really be careful doing things with anyone now days you can catch god only knows whatmy sister was 15 when she had sex the first time and got a STD from what she thought the was the man of her dreams just to find out that he was sleeping with other women and that was how she caught it Please becareful and always wear a condom no matter what if they dont have one they dont touch you its way to dangerous not to be safe and good luck and god be with you. One more thing you should get on birth control its really hard to raise childern right now trust me I know I have a three two and one year old and they are very needed and always want something new
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reader, Jmo +, writes (14 April 2009):
I know that when it comes to this question most people might say you're too young. I won't. That isn't to say that I think you're ready based on that, Just think you need to evaluate your feelings regarding that. Hell, it's your body, remember that. Do what you feel is right but make sure you're doing it responsibly. And do remember that at this age what may feel like love could be a slap in the face eventually.
-Jmo
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah my boyfriend is 15 and we have been going out a year. we pretty much have done everything in a lot of positions. we even have had a mfm and a fmf threesome and bondage and spanking. we do it anyhow anywhere anytime. it just feels right. i love doing it especially with him.
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reader, x-dorkykid-x +, writes (14 April 2009):
 The average of people loosing their virginity is at age 16 . You seem really young to have done everything sexual . I'm 16 and I've hardly done anything, even though my ex boyfriends were sex mad. It all varies with the ages because people have to be ready for them to do sexual things.
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