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Do you think I sould have sex ?

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Question - (9 April 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am Only 13 and my boyfriend wants me to have sex i think i am ready for sex i have kissed some one an messed around on the bed but i am still a vigen i nee answers please x

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntLooks like the "no's" have it. Stay a vigen a little longer.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009):

Nooooooooooo,you are too young and for Godsake what are you still doing in that relationship,my dear pls wait for that special guy and that special time(marriage).am still a virgin and in my early twenties,so you are not alone and you are not missing anything.ok

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009):

Hiya. I'm only 12; in which you don't have to check this if you don't want to. but I think you should do what YOU think is BEST! I mean. if he is pressuring you alot then thats not a very good boyfriend but if you have been asking and sharing this question ("shall we have sex?") together then maybe you should follow wherever your heartbeat goes. I think that if you say and you KNOW that you are ready then just go for it but just don't go getting your boyfriend in trouble by under aged sex! And make sure you use a CONDOM! It is the #1 essential wear. Anyway. Please take notice of this and follow where your heart desires. Bye and thanks for reading if your reading this! :-)

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A male reader, Tewebag United States +, writes (9 April 2009):

dont have sex. if he pressures you into have sex, get rid of him, its not worth it to give it away so early (you WILL end up hating yourself for giving it to someone who you will break up with at some point). you may think you are ready to have sex but your not, kissing is not the same as having sex. your body is still used to the time where people had to have sex at the age of 13_15 because you could only live another 20_30 years, we dont need that any more but it was a part of human life for so long it is still in are system want that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009):

No. You will regret it for the rest of your life. Wait for that special guy when your older. Don't throw it away. It will be so much better if you wait. My GF had sex early, and it affected her self-esteem for decades.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (9 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntdo not have sex your to young

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009):

Honestly, no.

I don't think you should.

Your only 13, like are you forreal? Im 17 & im still a virgin & im barely starting to engage in sexual stuff. Your to young. Sex is something serious. Think about what could happen. Plus how long have you & your bf been together? Make sure its been a while. I've been with mine for 11 months & no sex yet. Yes its my choice to wait. But if you think your ready, sure.

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