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He's married, threw me out like garbage but I miss him!

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Question - (14 April 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

My boyfriend left me in February, but until now I'm still in love with him.

I cannot concentrate with my job anymore. I'm obsess and the problem is he is married too.

Please anyone can give advise how to move on.

He throw me like a garbage.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

he threw you out like garbage because he thought of you as his garbage. this does not sound like a good man. you are better of without him. you have to believe that. he can only treat you like sh*t if you allow him, stop this now. you deserve better than that and you will get over him.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntDust yourself off and stay busy. Keep reminding yourself that you can't lose something you never had to begin with. Eventually you will get over him. Married men are off limits.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

For starters he wasn't YOUR boyfriend he is someone elses husband. You knew that and now you just feel rejected. News flash....... If you offer yourself to a man he's not gonna say no 90% of the time. Take it as lesson leraned and move on.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI can't help you get over him or feel sorry for you, but if you binned him as soon as you found out he was married you would have had less time to become so attached and also leave with the moral upper hand.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

Hello,

Yes i will agree with Honeypie..You should just go after Single men there are plenty out there hun..

Goodluck:)

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A female reader, Miami Ad-Vice United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

I know people will condemn you for having an affair with a married man but heartbreak is hard for anybody who goes through it. Time heals all wounds and you just need to be alone for a while and one day you'll be ready to move on.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

Honeypie agony auntHe wasn't yours to start with. Remember that. He is married.

Next time don't get involved with a married or commited man. Try a single fella. They can break your heart just as easily.

Also, you might want to take some time to think on why you jumped into a relationship with a married guy. You should want to have a guy that is fully "yours" not just whaever he's got an itch.

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