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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:it all started when he became a youth leader for my youth club we chatted and stuff and it was fun. then i started going to the church their with my friend who also feels she is in love with him. he helped me convert my life to become a christian which is great and i really appreciate that. but he is 21 and i am still in school. he confuses me because during a church service he looks upset but he always looks at me. then this previous sunday he totally ignored me but spoke to my friend and i thought i did something wrong. whenever i speak to another guy he gets all funny with me but this time i didnt speak to another guy. he always cheers up when he is talking to someone but when he is on his own he looks all gloomy. by the way he is a really nice guy not a peodafile or nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): Illegal, pervert, wrong. Don't do this to yourself. You're crushing on him you're young and naive just get over it find someone ur age or noone at all ur too young to be falling in "love". Keep going to church and listen to the words of god instead of thinking of love. Good luckandStay Safe.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 I'm sure he doesn't consider you to be more than a friend. I know you are crushing on him but try to control your vivid imagination. Enjoy the great times with all the kids in the youth group!
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 I think he is playing you, manipulation is not a nice thing at the best of times but worse if you are so young. If he is also moody and jealous and it seems the case I suggest you keep your distance. Guys that start off nice and end up like this can be unpredictable so keep your distance.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Maybe best to just talk to him bit more...get to know him better...you might just have a crush on him....and he might just like the attention the younger girls give him. If he is 21 he prob wouldnt get involved with someone who is 14.
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