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writes:hello im 15 in a great relationship with a girl my age , shes a lovely person and beautifully looking but it hurts me sometimes when i think of her past because she has slept around and sent dirty pictures to alot of my friends, i wan to get over her past but its hard , and im just wondering if theres anyway you could please give me any advice to get over my girlfriends past ?any help will be very appriciated .thanks alotx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): I'm in pretty much the same position. Recently I started to say "STOP!" to myself whenever I found myself starting to think about it, and that usually helps.The feeling got worse for me just after the start of our relationship but now it's starting to get better, so maybe you should stick with her and see how it goes? I don't know how long you've been with her though, so...If you get the impression you'll be able to stay with her for a long time (or perhaps you've been with her a long time) then stick with it. People can change, and if she loves you she will stay with you so long as you care for her.I would say that she'll probably be wanting sex with you given her past; you may have already done it with her. Just thought I'd give you a heads up if not...
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reader, MBaachman  +, writes (27 July 2009):
And she's your age? You need to let her go. I'm betting there are about 50 frat boys who will thank you for it in a few years.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 July 2009):
 All I can say is how sad it is to hear that a girl your age could possibly even have a past! I very much doubt you will ever be able to see her as anything else but damaged goods. We get posts from guys in your situation all the time and try as we might, we rarely see them change their mind sets. There a couple of uncles who have been in your shoes perhaps they will chime in but only you can make that change in thinking. Good luck.
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