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I'm pregnant...but who is the father??

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Question - (20 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 10wks and 6days pregnant, i broke up with my boyfriend on the 15th may 2009 but we continued sleeping together unprotected, however, on the 21st may 2009 i slept with another guy, i used a condom and no splits or tears were noticable but i am worried, i have got back with my ex but could the other guy be the father of my unborn child???

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A female reader, meg2989 United States +, writes (21 July 2009):

meg2989 agony auntI did the math, and even counted back on my cell phone. You were ten weeks counting from May 11th, I didn't count six days back, but as the last poster suggested, it sounds like you conceived somewhere around May 5th. The chances of your your bf being that father is almost 99.9 percent. If you are worried, after the baby is born you could have a paternity test done. But you really should have protected sex. I can understand if you have been with your bf for awhile and want a child, but to sleep with another guy and have unprotected sex??? Probably not a chance you want to take. Especially due to STD's not just because you could get pregnant. And if you and your bf were broken up but still sleeping together you really should have used a condom if you didnt want to get pregnant. in this day and age you need to take precautions if your not ready to have a child, and especially due to STD's. It only takes once to catch something incurable like herpes or aids. Or if you had caught something like syphilis and not known or found out about, you could end up a vegetable. Im not trying to be rude at all, I just want to push it a little for your own safety. I hope all goes well with your exboyfriend, you, and your baby. Good luck honey.

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A male reader, Jason32477 United States +, writes (20 July 2009):

Jason32477 agony aunt Simple math suggests its your bf`s baby. By 2weeks and some change.You probably conceived around May 5th.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (20 July 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntAfter the baby is born do a paternity test. Either guy could be the father.

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