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Should we just have sex to get it over with?

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Question - (19 July 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Should we just have sex to get it over? I am married and he is in a relationship. We are long for each other for almost a year now. He is going crazy because I try to avoid him and I am suffer from trying to do the right thing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

Yes,do it,but find a woman for your husband for a one off. If you cant handle that thought then dont do it.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (20 July 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf you think you are suffering from doing the right thing, I can guarantee you will be in agony for doing the wrong thing with this guy. Stay smart.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

What ever DON'T do it. I did and it causes nothing but heartache he is married i'm not,now we find it so hard to stop the sex,there can never be any commitment,it causes nothing but trouble stay away from this man please it never works out .

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

I did the "just have sex to get it over with" thing. I am married, he's not-- not over it. We still text back and forth and afraid it will happen again if I see him. So I try to avoid him too. Haven't seen him in a month-- still thinking of him

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A female reader, mossy Ireland +, writes (19 July 2009):

hi

if you want to do the right thing then dont have sex with him!! are you going to risk your marriage for him??

if you do have sex with him you must not love your husband very much! can you imagine how hurt he would be if he found out??

if you are going to do it please be sensible and break your marriage! i dont think u would like it if you found out your husband cheated on you if this guy wasnt in the picture....

think about your husband and is this guy all that he is craiced up to be!

mossy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009):

I think as you want to,you should,but end your marriage first. You cannot seriously love your husband.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (19 July 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntNo. You should not do it to "get it over with." If you want to do the right thing so bad, do it to the fullest and avoid him altogether.

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