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30-35,
*indaloo
writes:Hi I am thinking about contacting an old primary school 'best friend' she was brilliant, but when we moved onto high school (the same one) we made different friends and have gradually lost touch and not spoken for about 8 years. I really would like to become friends with her again. Any suggestions about how I go about this?Thanks (please no negative comments- only after for some advice/suggestions) Reply to this Question
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reader, petina1 +, writes (19 July 2014):
 Just keep it sweet and relive your memories of school. That's a start. Let her know how you've gone on in your life and ask her how she's doing.
good luck
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 July 2014):
 You mean, technically ? You send her a message through Facebook. I am no expert, but I know you can send her a message also if she is not in your list of friends, she gets it in her " Others " folder.
But no, I guess you weren't asking this. Maybe you want to know what to say. Nothing special. Keep it simple, Lucky for you, Facebook has created this " be connected " mentality ,so people now does not bt a lid being contacted by persons they USED to know 10, 20 years before ( which previously would have been seen as WEIRD ). I guess you just have to tell her " Hey Julia, remember me ? We used to hang out in..., too bad that when we moved to High School we moved in dfferent circles and lost touch, ' 'cause I have very nice memories of our times together, you were just BRILLIANT ! So I thought to say hi and catch up wth you, blah blah blah ".
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