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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 21 March 2007: I would just go with the flow Jules, like you said he'll be leaving soon so it might be nice to give him something to remember you by. Have a great time whatever you decide.
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Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 20 March 2007: Well you are certainly thinking more positive Jules so that's great! And yes, if you don't run after him and he's interested then he WILL make contact. Did you manage to have a look at that movie I recommended?
Eve... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 11 March 2007: Hi Jules,
He will pay for you to go over as long as you have sex with him! Hmmmm this puts a whole different light on things. I would still go over but go over with your own money and still go for your dream! The Secret is about the Law of Attra... (read in full...)
She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?
Q. I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost ...
A. 6 March 2007: Yes, I agree, that does tell you she has feelings for you. It sounds more like a "goodbye" hug to me. She knows she's maybe came on too strong in the past and she knows now what she has to do. Jogging to the car, she'd have been upset and just ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 3 March 2007: Watch this movie! It's called "The Secret" It is $4.95 (3.75 euros) to watch immediately from your PC.
http://thesecret.tv/home.html
Trust me here and watch it, then come back to me and tell me if you still feel the same way!
Eve ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 3 March 2007: I think this woman is WRONG! Very wrong! You sounded so full of enthusiasm when we last spoke, now you are thinking negatively because of the negative thoughts she's put into your head. You will be distracted because it takes so long to settle ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 28 February 2007: I WOULD see him before he goes, there's nothing wrong with that, you are still good friends and you'll also be able to see by his body language how he feels about you. I do think you're right not to sleep with him. That will only cloud your ... (read in full...)
It could be I'm extra sensitive right now, why might this be happening?
Q. Thank you in advance to all who respond here. I know everyone is busy. I work in a high stress field and have great co workers. There is a mutual attraction between one of my colleagues and myself. It has happened slowly and we are going to meeting ...
A. 26 February 2007: I think you are just over sensitive just now, even your job is highly stressful. People are noticing you and him are very friendly, you're right, some people miss nothing. You know you're meeting up with him soon but no one else knows so you're ... (read in full...)
I am desperate to get my ex back again, any ideas?
Q. hi again! can anyone tell me how to get or at least to try get my ex back any ideas?? there must be some way!!plzz help me plz thank you ...
A. 26 February 2007: Not enough information to go on I'm afraid. Why not send him a card and let him know your feelings for him.
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I think my friends are being really selfish here but they say I'm the selfish one!
Q. So once upon a time, I was head over heels in love with this guy named Danny. Then all of a sudden, his parents received new job offers, and he ended up moving to England (I'm in Florida, USA). I was heartbroken. It's been 1.5 years since we'v...
A. 25 February 2007: I agree with you 100 per cent. In THIS instance Danny comes first. He is only in America for 3 days and he was the love of your life. You'll see your friends at the prom and you'll still be there when Danny goes home. They ARE being selfish... ... (read in full...)
He hates me talking to others on MSN. Why should I cut off all my friends for him? I'm not doing anything wrong.
Q. hey my bf hates me tkin 2 otha ppl on msn, myspace or bebo etc, i dnt see the problem with it, but he has a big stress about it. we agreed a couple of months ago that we should only tlk 2 each other but i found out he tlked 2others so i started ...
A. 25 February 2007: He has too many insecurities and is frightened of losing you to someone else. Where's the trust here? I would advise you to reassure him, tell him he has nothing to worry about here and to trust you, after all, he talks to others and you trust him ... (read in full...)
I was given a pill at a party, it knocked me out and I woke up in my underwear with a guy in bed beside me, I have absolutely no idea what happened not my boyfriend has dumped me, it's all soooo unfair.
Q. Hi, I am head over heels in love with my exbf as of 11 february 07 who i had been with for over a yr... around June last year I went to a guy friends house with all my friends and bfs friends and I was drinking and hanging out and having a good tim...
A. 25 February 2007: Why didn't your boyfriend go to this party with you? Why did you take the Xanax? Surely you know pills and alcohol don't mix? Why didn't you call your boyfriend to come and collect you or even your parents? You say "I knew what he did to girls ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of a few weeks is moving way too fast talking about marriage and kids already and it scares the shit out of me, Help!
Q. hey im 14 and my boyfriend is 17 we ve been seeing each other for a few weeks and he doesnt live very near me and hes already talkin about marrige and having kids with me he also keeps sayin he wants me t be his last relationship and it really ...
A. 25 February 2007: You'll have lots of boyfriends before you settle down with the right one. Let him know that one day you WOULD like to settle down and be married and have kids but not for a long long time. He sounds really smitten with you which is nice but tell ... (read in full...)
Does anyone think its possible to have a relationship with someone when you're not physically attracted to them?
Q. Does anyone think its possible to have a relationship with someone when you're not physically attracted to them? Im really falling for a guys personality (hes lovely!) but im not physically attracted to him as in i cant imagine kissing him and ...
A. 25 February 2007: Yes, it IS possible to fall for someone even although at first you're not physically attracted to them. If he's fun and makes you happy then I don't see any reason why both of you can't cuddle up and watch a movie together. Physical attraction is ... (read in full...)
I think im driving myself mad with jealousy. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i just cant trust him at all.
Q. Really need some advice. I think im driving myself mad with jealousy. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i just cant trust him at all. he's a bit of a closed book and something just isnt right with him. Sometimes i wonder do i ...
A. 25 February 2007: You sound very insecure in this relationship with him and I get the feeling that's because you don't know him as well as you'd like to. You need to communicate more with him, try and draw him out a bit. He might find it difficult to begin with but ... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming I'm sleeping or massaging men (I'm male but NOT gay) why do I keep dreaming of men?
Q. i am sorry if i offends eny one but it has been bugging me for years since i was in secondary school i have had dreams about men not having sex with them but holding hands kissing and this one when i was in bed and he was hugging me i thought that ...
A. 25 February 2007: To dream that you very friendly with the same sex (but you are not in your waking life), represents a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolising self-love, self-acceptance, and compassion, in other words you are happy with who you are. If, ... (read in full...)
I want to try different positions with my boyfriend, any ideas?
Q. me and my boyfriend have regular sex and i want to try differnt positions and i want to try new things any one have any ideas?????...
A. 25 February 2007: Here are links to 2 sites that might help. They're quite graphic (but helpful) so I hope they don't offend.
http://www.condoms.au.com/positions/positions.html
http://www.loversguide.com/sex_positions.0.html
Eve
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We're so close, I really love this guy but he just wants to be friends, what can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need advice please! I am in love with this guy… and have been since I met him almost 7 months ago. After a couple of months, I told him I like him and after a while asked him how he felt. He said he only liked me as a mate. So, I wa...
A. 25 February 2007: I was so pleased to see you took my advice and smiled when I read how he kept trying to get in touch. Yep.... he missed you all right! ;o)
Well done! I hope everything works out just great for you.
Eve... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 25 February 2007: You said your passion is painting so I would pick up where you left off there and concentrate on that first and foremost in order to get your MA.
He made you take a look at yourself once and put you on the right road, maybe him going to London i... (read in full...)
I want to make my ex jealous of me, any ideas?
Q. hi guys, i hope you all ok! and we all have problem in here i hope there will be a way to solve it anyway i got a question guys! im a female and i want to impress others around me especially my EX lol can anyone help me out plzz?? and i want to ge...
A. 25 February 2007: Why would you want to make someone you supposedly love jealous? Nice beginning to a relationship... hurting him before you're even together again! I think THAT speaks for itself don't you? Move on, it will NEVER work between you!
Eve... (read in full...)
Why do guys have a habit of messing our heads up?
Q. Why do guys have a habit of messing our heads up? I constantly always have him my head, all the live long day. Its not fair- they are so confusing- they need to say how they feel- than use silence or expect us to mindread how they feel....
A. 25 February 2007: People mess our heads up because we LET them mess our heads up. You need to know how guys think! I suggest you read the book "Men are from Mars Women are from Venus by John Gray. The book explains the differences between men and women mentally, ... (read in full...)
How do I know for sure her and her ex ARE only friends?
Q. i really need some help, so can someone out there give me some advice. i really don't know who to turn to or what to do... (sorry this is so long) it all started over Christmas, i talked to my girlfriend everyday (we go to school together but live...
A. 25 February 2007: If you ever were to go and see your ex again would you tell your girlfriend beforehand... and if you knew your girlfriend was upset at this would you invite her BACK to hang out with you another weekend???
You are riddled with guilt here because ... (read in full...)
We live with his mother and she's driving me craaaaaazy!!!!
Q. Ok my husband and i have lived in his mothers house for about 7 months and i have hated it sence we have moved in here. his mother is ocd and she is really getting on my nerves she is always telling me to tell her and anyone what i think about ...
A. 25 February 2007: You really need to have a serious talk with your husband and I think that is going to be harder than you think. He doesn't seem to be bothered about all this going on, in fact I'd say he was totally oblivious to it all. You have to try and find a ... (read in full...)
My husband has a horrible temper. I've told him we need to work on it and he doesn't take it seriously. I'm attacted to someone else now! Help!
Q. I've been married for just over a year. My husband has a very bad temper to the point where all he does is yell when something bothers him. I tell him he has to calm down, but he doesn't. He never wants to talk things through rationally. He just ...
A. 25 February 2007: The other guy you're attracted to...? I'd put him out of my head for now, your husband is too volatile to comprehend you ever being with someone else just now, he could go for you or the guy you like so forget about him for the time being.
The m... (read in full...)
He spent $80 sending me flowers and he's my mate! Do you think he has romantic feelings for me?
Q. Hello, On Valentine's Day, one of my good guy friends had a dozen Roses and a bear delivered to my house. This was a complete surprise and very sweet of him definitely, but I didn't think of it as a romantic gesture so much as a friendly thing. ...
A. 25 February 2007: He definitely has romantic feelings for you but is too shy to let you know that, hence the reason for the flowers. If you like him then ask him if he wants to go for a drink or to a movie. Mention the flowers again and tell him how pleased you ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old and male and going on my first date! Any advice? I'm so nervous!!!
Q. Hi all, i need help, i'm 15 and haven't ever been out with a girl. But i'm going on date with this girl whos dead fit and 13 years old, but i'm really nervous. Any advice to give me please? I'm so nervous that my hand was shaking when i asked her ...
A. 25 February 2007: Where are you taking her on your date? Don't worry about it, she obviously likes you or she wouldn't have agreed to go with you in the first place. Just be yourself and talk to her as you would a friend. As her what she likes to do in her spare ... (read in full...)
I think he's interested in me but I'm not 100 per cent sure, there's 20 years between us, what do you think?
Q. I'm a 20 year old female who works at a grocery store and attends college full time. Over the last four years or so, I've developed a friendship with an older man who is a customer. We've talked about everything from cars(we both love muscle/classic ...
A. 25 February 2007: This has been going on for 4 years right? I find it strange that he has built up this friendship with you yet never asked you out. Do you know much about him? Is he married? Does he talk about his family or friends at all? It's perfectly natural ... (read in full...)
I really like this man but I need support just now more than a man. How can I go there and NOT look attractive?
Q. I have been separated from my husband for a year and we are filing for divorce this month. It was terrible, traumatic, both of us did terrible things to each other and I have had post traumatic stress problems for this whole year. So much so, in ...
A. 25 February 2007: First of all I want to commend you for wanting to DO something positive for yourself in the wake of your separation so well done there! I think this man sounds really nice, genuine. He really felt for you and what you went through and genuinely ... (read in full...)
What do you do when your husband does not see the bigger picture?
Q. whre do i go from here , im with my husband 13 years and since having twins 16 months ago life has become hard work ,im not complaining but i miss 1on 1 with my husband talking and just holding each other he thinks im just nagging .. i am only 27 ...
A. 25 February 2007: Can you not have another member of your family or a close friend to watch the kids one night so that you and your husband can have some quality time together? Let your husband know that you would do anything for some undisturbed time alone with ... (read in full...)
I have a fantasy about girl's feet but I don't want to tell any of my friends in case they laugh.
Q. i realy like girls feet, i have fantises of smelling them, licking them, and sucking there toes. i want to tell people so i can go out with the girls that don't mind but i am to scared to tell because i think that every body will find out and laugh. ...
A. 25 February 2007: Ask your friends if THEY have any fantasies and see what they say. If they open up then tell them what yours is but laugh WITH them (if they laugh) and make light of it. It's not so strange, lots of people share your fantasy so I certainly ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my girlfriend and go out with this other girl instead?
Q. I just got this new girlfriend about a week ago but i like this other girl who has been showing signs of interest in me. I don't know if to break up with my girlfriend and see if it'll work out with the other girl. What should i do?...
A. 25 February 2007: Although you like your girlfriend, she can't be "all that" when you have your eye on someone else. You're young and have only just started to see this other girl. Get to know the other girl better, chat to her and see who you prefer. Hold back ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to gather information so he can tell people and have it backfire on me?
Q. I like this guy and his best mate, and i think his best mate likes me cause he wont stop calling and he held my hand yesterday! He keeps asking me questions like what are your 5 favourite guys, and i told him that himself and his friend are in it, ...
A. 25 February 2007: Don't worry about what you said to him, you didn't do anything wrong, what you told him was true. In future don't be so free with information to him. If he asks you any more personal questions, throw them back to him first and ask HIM to answer ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he told his friend "I was The One" now I want to go back with him but I told him no second chances. Help!
Q. My Boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me in a text, it said how much he cared, but he thought trying to have relationship would hurt us in the future. He wants us to get back together after i move home(we go to different colleges, but he still ...
A. 25 February 2007: You text him back and tell him what you said is normally true, you don't give second chances but if he still wants to try again then you're willing to waive it just this once.
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She says she suffers from "Winter Depression."
Q. Hey there, I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year. At the first 5 mounths we were crazy in love. But it seems sinse then she has started to change into this other person. she is less emotional and less touchy , lovey kind of thing...
A. 25 February 2007: A lot of people suffer from this. The proper term for it is Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). What she needs is to get a very bright light and sit in this light between 15 and 45 minutes a day. This should alleviate her depression. See the link ... (read in full...)
She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?
Q. I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost ...
A. 25 February 2007: If you feel you are in control of the situation then there's no harm in meeting with her but if you're not 100 per cent sure about how you feel about her ie platonic friend only then I would put a bit of space between you both for now.
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She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?
Q. I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost ...
A. 24 February 2007: You put her firmly in her place that's what you do! Tell her you like her as a friend but nothing more. You love your wife and value your marriage and have no intentions of having anything more than a platonic friendship with her.
Does your wif... (read in full...)
I want him back and now after his booty call the other night, I am feeling more desperate than ever. Advice, please?
Q. Two weeks ago my partner and I broke up. We have been struggling for a few months now and just couldn't seem to get it sorted. The biggest prob was my inability to tell him what i want. I have now gotten over that and understand it is essentia...
A. 24 February 2007: He says he's not interested, yet he's interested enough to to just use you like a piece of meat to satisfy his own sexual desires??? What are you thinking here? Have a bit more respect for yourself. Of course you're more confused than ever, you ... (read in full...)
She's in a relationship...should I wait for her?
Q. Ok, so I met this amazing girl who is currently been in a relationship for 2 years. I really like this girl, and I have told her how I feel about her, and that I would wait for her. She told me that she cant reciprocate my feelings because she IS in ...
A. 24 February 2007: That was a nice gesture to let her know you'll wait on her and she was honest enough to let you know that although she is in a relationship for now she doesn't know what will happen. Now all you have to do... is wait!
I hope it works out for you ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my boyfriend Saturday night and I know he wants to finger me, any tips or advice?
Q. On saturday night i'm seeing my boyfriend, and i no he like wants to finger me. I've been fingered before, but i really really like this boy. Are there any tips or advice anyone can give me? Boys and Girls x...
A. 24 February 2007: If you really like this boy and more importantly, want to hold on to him then DON'T let him touch you intimately. If you do you'll find he'll "play" with you then dump you before you really get to know one another. If he really IS interested in ... (read in full...)
He's going away for army training for 6 months, what will I do?
Q. I love this lad but tomorrow morning he is going in for his 6 months army training only 4 days ago he said he loves me too but since then it seems different and we arent together what can i do???? please answer!!!...
A. 24 February 2007: Ask him for his address and let him know you'll write to him, like the other agony uncle below said, they look forward to letters coming to them so write to him and send him cards. 6 months isn't that long, he'll be back before you know it. ... (read in full...)
Why do girls always laugh for silly reasons and why are they so emotional? It really pisses me off sometimes, why are they like this?
Q. I don't like girls who cannot control their emotions. Especially those who keep laughing for silly reasons and get overwhelmed easily. It just pisses me off to be with someone who only likes to have fun and has nothing serious. But i don't ...
A. 24 February 2007: Sometimes when a girl is nervous she'll laugh the way you describe or it may be you're simply attracting the wrong kind of girl. Watch them from a distance first and see how they react with friends. Do they seem to be "blonde" and "ditsy?" It ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my mate's girlfriend, now he's caught on and I haven't been able to get in touch with either of them for 3 days! What's going on?
Q. Help! I am in love with my mates girlfriend, we have been talking for over year now and i really have fallen for her. She was going to split up with him, but before that happend he found out something is on. After that happend i havent been able to ...
A. 24 February 2007: Who smashed her phone, her modem and her PC...? You or her? Why was this done? For what purpose? What happened?
Eve... (read in full...)
We're both friends, we slept together recently but she doesn't want to get involved in case it ruins what we already have.
Q. hiya i am really stuck, i am 19 years old and have fallen for this girl who is 16 years old, we met each other through our mates at a house party. weve known each other for a week now, last night i saw her again and ended up in bed together, a few ...
A. 24 February 2007: She should have thought of that before she slept with you! You've only known each other for a week so there's not really a friendship to spoil!
You have both jumped in at the deep end here and slept with one another too quickly instead of getti... (read in full...)
One minute he likes me, the next he's horrible to me, what's he playing at?
Q. Im a teen and this boy who i have liked for about a year and a half who i was together with for a few months but still did things with afterwards, treats me horrible sometimes and we will do things and a week later or something he will not want to ...
A. 24 February 2007: If you mean the things he's "doing" to you are sexual then you are your own worst enemy. He IS using you and you're falling for it. You need to toughen up her and have some pride and self respect. Why would you even want to be with someone as ... (read in full...)
I'm really shy when talking to guys, how can I be more outgoing and talk to them easier?
Q. Hey All, I'm quite shy when meeting, or wanting to meet new people. My problem is that I don't know what to talk about. I'm fine when I know a bit about the person and I have some idea of what they're interested in, but when it comes to the ini...
A. 24 February 2007: You have no confidence and very low self esteem but you can get it back, just believe and assert yourself more. Here are two links that will help you to do this.
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
http:... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to stop sponging off me all the time?
Q. i am 29 yrs old and my boyfriend depends totally on me for finanances yet he has a job i have confronted him many times but he still does it how do i tell him that this hurts me very much and i cant take it anymore i feel that the only reason that ...
A. 24 February 2007: Ask him what he does with his own money? Tell him you're not working hard every week to hand it over to him. Let him know he's bang out of order asking you for money all the time and it's really starting to get to you. Does he have no self ... (read in full...)
My husband is texting a woman constantly, is he cheating on me?
Q. if my husband puts some womans phone number on his phone under a false name and delets all txts he sends and recieves but only from her, and clears his call register twice in as many days is he cheating? several times i have asked him if he is seein...
A. 24 February 2007: Get his phone, find the evidence then confront him about it. SHOW him the evidence. Ask him what he's playing at? Does he WANT to lose you? If he can't be honest with you and is going behind your back like this then you really need to think ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend, how can I regain his trust?
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend, how can i regain his trust? Me and my boyfriend have been together a year in April. When met in a bar, and this night we didnt realised we liked one another until our friends talked together. But before we knew this (or...
A. 24 February 2007: Again, it's the trust issue. If you trusted Craig 100 per cent it wouldn't bother you that Jo and him had gone to his room to pick a movie. Seems to me that Craig is enjoying winding you up. Why on earth would a boyfriend tell his girlfriend that ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend, how can I regain his trust?
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend, how can i regain his trust? Me and my boyfriend have been together a year in April. When met in a bar, and this night we didnt realised we liked one another until our friends talked together. But before we knew this (or...
A. 24 February 2007: You are both very insecure in your relationship together and both need to learn to trust one another more. Okay, so he's saying he doesn't trust you because you kissed another guy. You were straight and upfront with him, you were honest enough to ... (read in full...)
We're so close, I really love this guy but he just wants to be friends, what can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need advice please! I am in love with this guy… and have been since I met him almost 7 months ago. After a couple of months, I told him I like him and after a while asked him how he felt. He said he only liked me as a mate. So, I wa...
A. 18 February 2007: I think it would be better to stay off the PC for a while. You could block him but if another friend knows you're on and tells him then he'll wonder how he's blocked so be careful there. Spending time with your family is a good idea too! As far ... (read in full...)
We're so close, I really love this guy but he just wants to be friends, what can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need advice please! I am in love with this guy… and have been since I met him almost 7 months ago. After a couple of months, I told him I like him and after a while asked him how he felt. He said he only liked me as a mate. So, I wa...
A. 16 February 2007: One way to see how he really feels about you is to have some space from him. It might be that he really does like you as more than a friend but he just doesn't know that yet as you are always together. And of course you have both gotten a lot ... (read in full...)
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