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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: This guy I've liked for so many years and he wants to leave his current girlfriend due to many arguements which i know about. We have spoken and he wants to be with me and his son but the problem is that the woman has two children which he is very fond of there not his what do i do and say im very confused..... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): the only problem i see is that this guy is having his cake and eating it and your destroying a family.let this guy and his woman sort themselves out since as you say there is children involved
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reader, AskEve +, writes (21 February 2007):
Tell him how you feel about him but it is entirely up to him whether or not he feels he can leave her if he feels so attached to her children. Don't pressure him here one way or the other. It's got to be HIS decision. Tell him you'll give him space for now and to get back in touch with when he knows what he wants, you'll respect his answer whatever it is.
Eve
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